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Why do men find girl on girl so much of a turn on?......

312 replies

oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 17:59

Hi everyone

Was just wondering really because when me and dp first got together he said that he didn't get it. Now though, he finds it a real turn on and just wondered why.

Women don't usually find the idea of 2 men together a turn on...........I think anyway.

Any thoughts? Would be great to hear from a mans point of view.

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MrGin · 14/03/2012 14:38

MrGin is touching on something

'oi ! I'm not touching anything !

MrGin · 14/03/2012 14:41

Oreo, their sexuality wouldn't really matter as such.

Two ( attractive ) women getting it on would be a turn on even if they wouldn't be interested in me.

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:43

Sorry, although I too like the film Meet Joe Black, what's that got to do with your previous comment Quint? Am I being really dumb?Hmm

Definitely sparky, let's get all the men to take off their masks!GrinWink

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oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:47

Interesting MrGin. Their sexuality wouldn't matter to you? Would it not ruin it if they weren't genuinely enjoying or getting off on each other?

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SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 14:47

Two ( attractive ) women getting it on would be a turn on even if they wouldn't be interested in me Hmm This is a MrSparrow comment

Confused
QuintessentialyHollow · 14/03/2012 14:49

Yes Oreo. My personal favourite is the swimming pool scene.

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:49
Grin
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QuintessentialyHollow · 14/03/2012 14:50

Oh, meet Mrs GIN!

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:50

sorry wasn't laughing at your comment Quint

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QuintessentialyHollow · 14/03/2012 14:51

how very dare you not laugh at me when I am actually trying to be funny!

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:51

You mean when they have sex for all of 1 and a half minutes?.......

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SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 14:52

I'll laugh at you Quint Grin Grin Grin

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:53

Oooops!! My bad. Grin Grin Grin Grin and then some!! Just for you Quint. Sorry i'm confused now, are you a man or not?

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AnyFucker · 14/03/2012 14:53

I thought Meet Joe Black was a family film Confused

Do lesbians wear stockings for each other ? (genuine question). If not, why would they wear stockings if not for the "performance for the menz" aspect ?

So, two lesbians in stockings might only be because they had been directed to do that. Which can only be a turn off right ?

AnyFucker · 14/03/2012 14:53

Glad to see this thread has got back on track, btw.

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:53

It's difficult to read sarcasm on hereWink

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OnTheFreeway · 14/03/2012 14:56

Exactly what MrGin said - except for "threatening penis", substitute... er... "lady bits that I don't currently find attractive". The thought of two hot guys immensely turned on and getting each other off - yup, I'm all about that Grin. But it's all a fantasy. I wouldn't want to be physically involved, and it's actually better if it isn't real. I have no desire for real men - gay or straight - to put on a show. Reading erotic fiction about it works best for me.

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 14:56

I wouldn't mind a girl in stockings AF If I wear them I feel really naughty.

Are you really a man?

AnyFucker · 14/03/2012 14:56

if it's got letters in it, it's sarcasm Wink

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:57

AnyFucker, you should check out Vicky Cristina Barcelona. That reawakened my "curiosity". To be fair though you don't really see very much. I bet you'd like that film with Denise Richards and Neve Cambell, what's it called?.............Wild things?Hmm

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MrGin · 14/03/2012 14:57

Oreo. If they weren't enjoying it... It would be a massive turn off.

OnTheFreeway · 14/03/2012 14:58

AF, I don't know the predominance of stockings among lesbians, but my ex certainly used to. Not "for me" as part of sex, necessarily. I think she just liked it. I certainly liked her wearing them better than tights because there wasn't that boingy bit.

oreoaddict · 14/03/2012 14:59

I'll second that sparky

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OnTheFreeway · 14/03/2012 14:59

Gusset.

AnyFucker · 14/03/2012 15:00

Oreo, I have seen both of those films. They gave me a raging hard on.

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