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Why do men find girl on girl so much of a turn on?......

312 replies

oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 17:59

Hi everyone

Was just wondering really because when me and dp first got together he said that he didn't get it. Now though, he finds it a real turn on and just wondered why.

Women don't usually find the idea of 2 men together a turn on...........I think anyway.

Any thoughts? Would be great to hear from a mans point of view.

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flatbellyfella · 14/03/2012 20:46

I have re apeared after a hard days work. Wow!! What an exciting thread it's turned into, thought it may have progressed to three women getting it off by now. As for AF skipping off, I can still skip as good as the next man can.
Menz in stockings is not a good look ,yuk!!! Maybe if you were going to a Rocky Horror Show , Sparky you have made great entertainment on reading from my last post .
TBE < didactic presumptuous tone> is that good?? Have to look that phrase up. If it's good. Thank youThanks
Why do men like breasts big hips etc .We are hard wired that way,it's natures way of keeping the human race in existence ,in my opinion the female form is the most powerful image I have ever experienced, just look at the reaction Beyonce Knowles gets from both sexes.even without the gusset flashing she is good to look at.

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 21:07

Awww thanks fbf never been called entertaining before :)

MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 21:14

Beyonce iis fit and ffs, how did she get ehr figure back so god damned quick!!

MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 21:15

Its not fair!

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 21:17

I know miracle its not fair.

What is nice though for me is that dh doesn't find her attractive at all!

MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 21:19

I can honestly say though I used to be able to do the thing she does with her bum! She doenst do it from the bum, the work is done in the legs!

WMDinthekitchen · 14/03/2012 21:24

2 women = 4 breasts and 2 fanjoes. Simples (just like the men)

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 21:25

I can do it when I'm pissed Grin

flatbellyfella · 14/03/2012 21:27

He is telling Porkies ,sparky to save your relationship.

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 21:29

No he's not. I know when he's fibbing and he's not. He's just strange Grin

MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 21:32

No, what it is is that sparky you are more attractive than her so he doesnt need to look when what he has is better!

SparkyMcSparrow · 14/03/2012 21:34

Ha I wish

Aww miracle you flatterer Grin

flatbellyfella · 14/03/2012 21:36

Have to wish you all night night. I have a 5am start tomorrow.

MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 21:47

I wish i looked half as good as beyonce!! But nope! Its so unfair, maybe another hundred hours a week at the gym would help!

solidgoldbrass · 14/03/2012 23:11
MyLittleMiracle · 14/03/2012 23:22

Wont need that bucket of cold water, we wont be back...until tomorrow. night all!

enthusiasmcurbed · 14/03/2012 23:58

I agree with Miss. Most men only want one cock in their beds, theirs :O

MrGin · 15/03/2012 09:07

Never before in mumsnet history has two men been snoggin on a thread.

Ahem..... you must have missed the whole dappled deer thread last year then.

We put on quite a show. All in the best possible taste.

I'm assuming Techno is the same bloke. If not he's probably run for the hills after my latest advances.

oreoaddict · 15/03/2012 10:45

Morning! Do we not have a hungover smiley?

Oh dear. I went out with the intention of having a nice quiet drink at my local pub. Well 1 turned into 4 or 5(I think) and I hadn't eaten before hand which is a big mistake. Oh well, dp was off this morning so he took dd to school. Just aswell! One of my friends and dp were babysitting and when we came home we decided it would be a brilliant idea to play charades and then dance around like 4 morons to Maroon 5's Moves Like Jagger, which by the way was on repeat! Oh god, I hate the next day flash backs. Tut tut

Oh and I had that chat with dp about he felt about other women being brought into the mix so to speak and to my amazment he said that he actually wouldn't see it as cheating if he found out i'd been with another woman. He said he's not interested in being with another man, which if fine with me as it's not really my thing. I'm in shock to be honest! I don't really know what to do with that. Do I go out looking for it? Do I pretend he didn't give me the green light effectively? I feel a bit funny about it, but at the same time excited. It's all very new and strange.

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SparkyMcSparrow · 15/03/2012 11:45

Morning oreo
Moves like Jagger is the best song when your pissed Grin

Did you have that conversation sober?

oreoaddict · 15/03/2012 11:58

Yep. I would have just took it as horny tipsy talk, but it was the first thing we talked about when we went out so he certainly had a clear head.

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SparkyMcSparrow · 15/03/2012 12:01

Ooo so what you gonna do? Grin

oreoaddict · 15/03/2012 12:07

I really don't know. Like I say i'm really confused. One part of me wants to jump on the next woman I find attractive and just get it out of my system, another part of me feels really nervous. It's been a while you know since I was last with a woman. I just assumed that it would be one of those things that I did in the past and wouldn't/couldn't do again because i'm in a committed realtionship now. It feels a bit like someone's given me a huge box of chocolates, which I really want to eat, but don't know if I should. Does that make any sense?

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SparkyMcSparrow · 15/03/2012 12:14

Yes it makes sense course it does your me Grin

I think first of all you need to make sure he means what he said. If he does then ask him if he is comfortable with you doing it without him around unless you want him around. If his then just wait and see what happens. Maybe go out for a girly night, pop into a gay bar . Do you have any friends who you think might be interested? You don't have to do anything right away just wait for the opportunity to present itself which will more than likely to happen if you go to a gay bar but make sure that you are honest with the other person involved. Explain your circumstances clearly!

oreoaddict · 15/03/2012 12:24

I don't think that any of my friends would understand tbh if I went to a gay bar. Well, they'd go, but probably would think it was odd if I suddenly started tonguing the ladiesGrin My best friend used to be a gay man, but he turned out to be a real bitch so that friendship died. Damm! That would have been a perfect opportunity to caaaaaaaasually walk into a gay bar.

I don't really see a way of doing it. If anything this has just made me more frustrated because now I know that I can do it, but can't see a way of actually doing it.

Can't tell you how confused I am!!

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