Ive posted on here a few times before but I keep slogging on in the hope my marriage will get better. Over the last few weeks I have noticed that DH treats me with contempt. Like I'm stupid or unimportant. He's always done it but it's getting so much worse. There was an instant a couple of weeks ago where he ranted and raved how we hadn't had sex for months, I never made the initiative. When he finally let me talk I reminded him we had done it 3 times in 5 weeks (not a lot I know) all of those times I had initiated it and one of which at the time he said was absolutely fantastic. Hurt a lot that he had forgotten and didn't apologise for what he said.
He has been fairly vile to me this weekend, mainly because he had to "look after" our DCs while I was on a training course. I've just realised that while I was out he took the pile of papers I have on top of fridge (dc artwork, school certificates etc) and threw them away because they weren't important. I'm not allowed to have paperwork anywhere in this house. It's sterilely clean, as he wants it. That was my one little area. It was a neat pile above eye level. All their work from the last 6 months that I like to look at sometimes.
I feel like its the final straw but can I go because he threw away the picture my DD did on her first day at school. It's the fact it was unimportant to him. That I'm unimportant.