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Hi all,
My husband is loving and kind. We've had our problems in the past but have been getting on really well recently however, we've not had sex for a few months due to late pregnancy followed by a c-section. A couple of weeks ago we resumed our love life but the other day I discovered a live sex webcam window open on his laptop.. I really don't know what to think or how to react. On one hand I don't blame him since our sex life has been non existant and I've always been quite relaxed about porn use. On the other hand I feel quite sick and cheated. It feels disgusting to think he's been doing this while our kids sleep upstairs. Of course, there's always the possibility that it was an unwanted pop up window that he hasn't actually used... Not sure there'd be anything to gain by talking to him because he would just deny it and we'd end up arguing but I need to do something as it's completely stopped me from wanting to have sex with him even thou we've only just got that part of our relationship back on track... help!

Sardine! - of course - the long-awaited answer to why men bring books to the lavatory: instructions for how to shit successfully :o

Also loving the idea of struggling to masturbate "successfully" :o

I love the way that a group of people busting out laughing as been taken as "wound up"

bursting

My keys are sticky. Like someone elses around here [boak]

OP - Apologies for resurrecting this thread but...

Go to redtube and either click on the search box or open a video. You should get a popup with what is supposed to be a live webcam (not convinced it actually is and fairly certain that, if you try to interact, you are actually talking to a machine). The popup may appear behind your current browser window, making it harder to spot. But it should be there. Try the same on spankwire or youporn. They all do the same thing.

"That's right, men simply cannot imagine things. That is why no work of fiction has ever been created by a man. Especially not any erotic works of fiction."

I very much doubt DH Lawrence had a hard-on when he wrote Lady Chatterley's lover. Erotic fiction is written purely for female consumption.....it does little or nothing for men.

"If you must use porn in order to masturbate it means you have some sort of sexual dysfunction/libido problems.
It's not normal. Maybe you should start a thread and ask for help about that, instead of insisting that's how men are wired."

Thanks for the advice......I'll pass your concern onto the rest of the male population.

"Sardine! - of course - the long-awaited answer to why men bring books to the lavatory: instructions for how to shit successfully"

As I mentioned in my earlier post, I'm not into extreme porn, but if scat/hard-sports floats your boat then good for you.......who I'm I to judge.

I could probably find some links to sites that cater for your specialist interests, let me know!

typo - who am I to judge

Firefly, are you really so thick that you can't imagine a man who doesn't use porn? Seriously?
Just because you can't function sexually without it, that doesn't preclude the men who can and do.

Some men prefer actual sex with a woman.

Just to make things perfectly clear, my particular man, along with the partners of plenty of other women on here, does not use porn in any shape or form, okay?

I think it's different horses for different courses, so to speak. I don't think porn leads to a depraved sexual dysfunction any more than having a glass of wine in the evening turns everyone into alcoholics.
I also don't think it's true that men NEED visual stimulation in order to climax - if that were true it would be an end to premature ejaculation problems because all a man would need to do is close his eyes!
For now, I've decided to give him the benefit of the doubt even though I can't recreate the pop up on his pc. I can get advert pop ups and dating sites but not an actual webcam interface. At some point I will need to have a conversation with dh to clarify that webcams are out of bounds and I'm sure he'll respect that wish.
Thanks for your help and happy (mass) debating!

Hey Malificence.....I think you're starting to warm to me... ;)

Flippingstupidnickname......Good considered response. I think you you are doing the right thing to give dh the benefit. Perfectly normal behaviour and all that.

Well I think it's time to leave this particular coven for a while.......hope you all have a good weekend!

Its ludicrous to suggest meneed porn to masturbate!I'm sure some do sometimes but not always.

Also women can find porn just as erotic and a turn on as men! I sometimes watch and enjoy porn and much as my dp.