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Am I a little strange

42 replies

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 17:59

We all read "naughty" stories occasionally and even sometimes "naughty" films. But recently I've found myself drawn to the subject of 2 men together. Am I strange ?

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Wrongbow · 18/01/2012 18:09

Certainly not. I'd much rather watch gay male porn than straight porn aimed at men.

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 18:18

Phew. Thanks.

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fuzzpig · 18/01/2012 18:20

Watch the recent series of torchwood.

O.

M.

G.

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 18:29

Why is that?

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fuzzpig · 18/01/2012 18:33

Jack Harkness is rather busy in some episodes.

Blush
quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 18:36

I find it's not who it is but what they are doing. But captain jack yum

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fuzzpig · 18/01/2012 18:39

I don't like any actual porn BTW, no matter who is in it. Something has to be vaguely realistic for it to interest me.

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 18:41

Oh definitely fuzzypig. But I'm not asking DH to offer lol

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Lifeisquiteabsurd · 18/01/2012 19:07

Strange? Er, god no. Much of my life is dedicated to men/men relationships, though not actual porn, I'm more a slash fiction fan myself and have been since I discovered it in my early teens. Shock

In Japan there is a whole genre of comics that are aimed specifically at women that feature men/men relationships called Yaoi (やおい) also known as Boys' Love. You can just buy it in normal bookshops. And in the West we have slash fiction which is found mainly online and is dominated my (mainly) straight women.

Just remembered that Wikipedia isn't available today so my links won't work, but they should be available within the next 24 hours.

Men being fascinated by lesbians is seen as perfectly normal, yet it seems to be culturally unacceptable to say that women enjoy reading/watching men/men.

shuffles off

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 19:12

Yes very good point. Still feel naughty Smile

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Dotty342kids · 18/01/2012 19:17

Nope, I'm with you on this one. It is strangely erotic! No idea why but presumably some nice person with a degree in psychology will be along to explain shortly!

fuzzpig · 18/01/2012 19:22

Is it seen as culturally unacceptable? I honestly don't know as I've never spoken to anyone about it (except DH, who was understanding although he doesn't find 'girl on girl' at all interesting. I do...)

lifechanger · 18/01/2012 20:08

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quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 20:20

@ lifechanger. That's what got me started off Wink

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yellowraincoat · 18/01/2012 20:22

There's so much girl on girl stuff around and no-one finds that unusual. I also think about 2 men together. It's hot.

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 20:48

Wow. Seems I'm not alone big time.

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maleview70 · 18/01/2012 20:54

Hypothetically then, If you were single , would you have been interested in a threesome where the men as well as pleasuring you, also did so with each other?

I know a girl who did this and she found it the most erotic day of her life. Even now she says it will never be bettered. She was very very open though.

My DW on the other hand would be totally repulsed by the idea.

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 21:03

I have thought about that and I'd only watch. Not interested in another man with me. As my name suggests.

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maleview70 · 18/01/2012 21:37

That why I said If you were single....

quitehappywithhubbythanks · 18/01/2012 21:42

Honestly don't know

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maleview70 · 18/01/2012 21:46

What about if your husband said he was Bi and wanted you to watch him with another man? Would that be too much for you from a cheating aspect or something you would find stimulating?

Dotty342kids · 18/01/2012 21:48

maleview70, hope you don't mind me saying but you're starting to sound slightly toooo interested!

snuffaluffagus · 18/01/2012 21:49

Brokeback Mountain - SO HOT.

UnlikelyAmazonian · 18/01/2012 21:49

Not relevant maybe, but why the feck the sudden invasion of 'hubbies' ? Who the hell writes 'me and my hubby' ?

Invasion of the twidiots on MN I fear. No doubt deliberate.

Do jog on with your hubby and your man on man fantasies [tee hee] SO not interesting.

ledkr · 18/01/2012 21:50

does anyone remember "queer as folk" on chan 4. i was fairly young and a bit horrified at my apparent titilation Grin

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