i don`t have time to waste on gold-diggers

[mrwidower]

why do women waste their time, hunting for moneymen when security comes in many forms -

what are you looking for ?????

Oh and fat men bellies turn me off, I can't be doing with the roll on roll off like a pair of weebles.

Precisely. I do not want some useless fuck scrounging off me. They have to be solvent and self sufficient.

apart from that tall and a good shag will do nicely

Yy. Put Good at cunnilingus at the top of the list.

Isla

I wondered if anyone would rise to it

Sarah what about a good fuck scrounging off you?

No, no good fucks scrounging either.

Gardener or pool boy Sarah?

I think if they are a good fuck and scrounging off you they are probably an employee.

I'm not a cunnilingus fan myself. Just saying

I'm not overly fussed about lotsa money but I'm buggered if I'd choose someone in lots of debt/bad with money/who expects to be supported again.

OP, I suggest you waste your time and money reading after buying a guide to good grammar and spelling frankly

Money and class do not go hand in hand. This much is apparent.

I think they whole gold digger thing is made up by men to account for the fact that women will not live in servitude and expect to have an equal relationship with men.

Is that a wad in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me, honey?

how many women consider even more children too much trouble to add into a new relationship

No man or woman should be considering adding any children into a 'new relationship'.

It sounds to me as if you're using your 'busy life as a single parent' as an excuse to avoid spending the time it takes to nurture potential new love interests into something more than a passing fancy.

Perhaps you should confine your search to a FWB arrangement until your life is less 'busy'.

TSC - you don't do small talk do you? Get straight to the point

It's not gold digging, it's protecting my, ummm, assets. So if you want to get anywhere near my other assets, you have to be financially sound.

What we don't want is a scrub.

A scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly.
And is also known as a buster
Always talkin' about what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass

HTH

My quote was TLC [profound emoticon]

Just how much money are we talking about?

TSC

You got to have. J O B and be good at cunnilingus if you want to be with me

mrwidower - I'm sorry for taking the piss a bit but honestly if you're coming across as flash and all about yourself and money you will attract only gold diggers. I couldn't give a fiddlers fart about the money as long as the person is sexy as fuck (to me), thinks I'm sexy as fuck, is a good laugh, witty, smart, well presented, smells nice and is good at cunnilingus

Maybe you're looking in the wrong sort of places?

or live at home wi your momma?

That's always a turn off.

Just to be clear, just because a man is good at cunnilingus doesn't mean he has to demonstrate it all the time.

Sometimes one needs time to balance the cheque book or eat.

Why am I getting the feeling that the OP's idea of a hot date is to invite a woman round for fish fingers dinner with the dc after which he expects her to do the washing up that's been festering for a week while he puts them to bed and, following a quick shag on the sofa, she's out the door in a cab home that she pays for herself?

Last of the true romantics, or what?

Certainly helps though Isla

What about Wii your momma? That's a turn off too.

DH has a cousin in his 40s who sold his house and moved back in with his mum and complains that all women are interested in is his money.
I imagine that what is actually happening is that any woman who likes him will immediately start quizzing him about his finances to work out if he can afford to move out because there's no way the relationship can work as long as he lives with his mum.