Cunting XH is gaslighting the DDs

[SarahStratton]

Has told them I never loved him, that he was badly treated by me, and that I just wanted his money.

how old are they
do they live with him

Urg. How old are they? If they're old enough to tell you (are they?) then are they old enough to remember that that's not what went on?

Poor little buggers in any case, having their father whine to them. yet

My Dad did this to me, I never believed a word, it just made him smaller and smaller in my eyes.

Statters, I can only imagine how difficult this is. But I agree that the DDs will figure it out for themselves.

Keep strong.

They won't believe him, they are 18 and 14 and know exactly what he is like. They won't forget the hooha in the summer either. God knows what he thinks he will achieve by this, self justification?

Don't get a bloody penny maintenance either.

Yup, let's take the arsehole out.

I thought this might be you, Stratters - something in the turn of phrase, I think!

He is a wankbag of the highest order, isn't he? But your DDs are smart, the only person he is damaging is himself, if he only had the wit to see it.

I do feel sorry for your DDs though, having to put up with this shit. Still, at least hopefully they'll avoid men like your ex when they come to picking their own partners!

They've seen the string of girlfriends, they've seen him try and rub my nose in it. He's always said that I've not dated because I haven't got over him, I guess this is a lash out because I've decided to date. They were there when the police removed him from my house, after he got so verbally abusive that I fled to my parents.

Cuntfacewankstain

He's not gaslighting them, he's bullshitting them and by the sound of it they can smell it a mile off.

Stupid man. You're well shot of that one ay.

Due to ages of children, don't think it will have much in the way of harmful effect on them if you don't rise to the bait, and I'm sure you won't.

Like previous poster said, it will just make him look smaller in the whole scheme of things.

Arsehole. Just let it wash over you while saying "ArseChisle, ArseChistle"

The Shitsponge has also been doing the "Not been seeing you boys, cos, y'know things are really.....RAW between me and your mum..."

That prevents him from giving them so much as an xmas card y'know? The RAWNESS of it all.

Although - this was funny, he rang the house on the day after Boxing Day. I answered the phone and a voice barked down the phone "Let me speak to one of the boys" and I - and this is no lie - didn't know who it was! So I was all "Uh, Who is this please?" and then he had to say ahahaha "Shitsponge!" and then I said "Oh OK - DS1! Your dad's on the phone" and then DS1 GROANED.

ME ME ME ME ME ME.

Don't worry Stratters they know he's a twat.

They do. It still makes me INCReDIBLY ANGRY though.

God I need a new e. :(

See, if the cunt paid me maintenance I could afford a new bloody laptop, rather than one where I have to use cntrl v to make an e.

Gah.

or is it

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at the "I've not dated because I've not got over him...". Just .

ArseCHISLE.

I'm supposed to be calling the CSA today to find out whether they're taking him to court or not...CBA.

It does seem pointless sometimes. XH just jacks his job in every time I mention maintenance.

Wanker. Arsechisle (what is an arsechisle?)

Your DH is an ArseChisle. It's just imaginative swearing.

I like it.

XH. Very, very XH. And if he comes within 10 miles of me he will be an XH somewhat akin to the Monty Python parrot.

Wanker. Shall we initiate The Death Plan? Tjobes and I will stand by with long stiletto knives. I am in just the fucking mood, too.

Yup. He had the cheek to ring last night to try and quizz me about my lack of love life.

Initiate the plan Sue. I get to give the final Death Blow though.

No dulling, you have to be far, far away with a watertight alibi. Such is the beauty of The Plan.

You may deliver the death blow to mine

We so need to organise regional mumsnet posses complete with dr martens' for the kicking of, stilettos for the trampling of, and rusty blades for the castration of.

Have cape - will travel to chisle arses attend mumsnet sewing bees thus providing watertight alibis

Dulling, you are right. I shall be far away, establishing a watertight alibi. T'would be divine if it could happen whilst I am having coffee with MrPlanes, non. Most fitting.

Oh I do love the justified use of cunting in a thread title.

I'm in for the stamping squad

Was a little shocked by "cunting" in the title. Am now of the opinion it wasn't strong enough. Trust me when I say they will see right through him and probably end up having nothing to do with the fuckcuntwankshitewad!
When do we go a kicking? (I weigh about the same as a small hippo so I'll pin him down ok?)

I know nozzin about ze stamping squad.