mastrubating when I'm asleep.

[elmoreleonard]

Hi, i'm on here because i don't know if this is normal or not. I've woken up a few times now with my new boyf groping me and ejaculating on my bum when i'm asleep. Is he a creep or do all guys do this? I was embarrassed and pretended i was still asleep but i feel weird about it.

Not normal AT ALL!!

Minging. eugh.

No it's not normal.

that is dreadful. show him the door NOW

Yuck

Leave him.

It's normal if it's consensual and is mutually agreed behaviour.
Otherwise it's disrespectful.

Not sure this is a totally serious post however.

Buy him a wank sock.

A nice mitten would be better.

IMO not normal and quite creepy. Hope you find a resolution.

Smear something on his bum while he's asleep.

Give him some condoms and tell him to have a posh wank instead of using your bum.

Smear shit under his nose whilst he rests, that'll learn him

Not normal.
Engaging in sexual activity with someone who is not consenting to it = sexual assault. Just FYI

It is not normal. You are not an aid to masturbation and it is unacceptable to use your body in this way.

Also, depending on your method of contraceptive and the, erm, angle, not totally without risk either. If anything - oh gawd, the conversations I have on mumsnet spills, dribbles or otherwise ends up round the front, it is not totally impossible (although highly unlikely!!!) to find yourself up t'duff.

Sounds like he has little respect for you

I thought that Hecate, but wasn't sure how to word it, you summed it up nicely.

Oh my god! Horrible disrespectful behaviour. Definitely not OK. Talk to him or get rid!

Don't you have to get up and go and wipe it off OP?

Not normal at all and I thought the same as hecate.

Was your BF obviously awake at these times, or did he seem wierdly dazed and go straight back to sleep afterwards? Have you asked him if he remembers doing it?

I'm not saying it's this, but this is an actual, real condition:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexomia

There have been extreme cases of people getting up, leaving their house and having sex with strangers, all while completely asleep. Some legal cases about whether it was rape, but also problematic cases for women sufferers who have literally gone out and offered up "consensual" (if you can call it that) sex to random strangers on the street, while asleep.

Of course those are the extremes, and presumeably it usually manifests itself more mildy.

If it's not that, I would definately agree with others that it's disgusting and out or order. Ewwww..... Run a mile.

Yuck, he has no respect for you What. So. Ever. Get. Rid.

That is just so wrong. And fucking vile too!

The things I read about on MN......

at your bf

There are two kinds of socks on this thread. Wank socks and sock puppets. Or people with a fucking radar.