Basic history- I'm 25 have a nearly 5 month old DS. Baby daddy decided to leave- were doing great without him. So yes I am single but yes I do have a DS but surely having a friend with benefits is allowed and good?? As its nothing serious it won't effect my DS as they will never meet or be aware. I just have a really good friend who wants to be my or his benefit. Basically its just harmless fun. Agreed we would both respect either and would not cause only problem in either new relationship. Just don't want to be a slut. I've known him for ages and wouldn't do it with anyone else.