My condoms in his wallet.

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That's it. Found condoms in his wallet. Our condoms. Usually kept beneath the matress. Where the rest of them are! Oh... And... Lying about money and naked pic of himself on computer. That are obviously sent to someone else! What do I do?

Ask him? Why would you do anything less?

DON'T ask him, because he is quite clearly looking to have sex with other people. Just ask him to leave.

Ask him? Ask him what? You know all you need to know. Tell him to move out. Be strong x

With Chipping here.

Don't waste no more time on these f*ckwits!

Welcome to the club............

What explanation do you think is most likely? Act assuming that to be the case, because you won't be wrong.

Personally if my DH done that he would be out but ultimately it's down to you to decide.

As others have said he is either looking to have sex or has had sex with someone else and that's a deal breaker for me. Kick his arse out

DON'T ask him, because he is quite clearly looking to have sex with other people. Just ask him to leave.

pmsl!!

Ask him to explain himself. Everyone deserves the truth even if you know it already chick

Chin up

Thing is I'm not even upset it's probably over. Think I have instantly stopped loving or caring about him. Its like I don't even care. Just want it over. I feel nothing about whole situation. Moving forward and all that .

How did you find them?

Better ask him first before you kick him out. Some men use condoms for wanking.

Game over

Tell him to leave, and take it from there

And I suppose that the naked pictures of himself on the computer, and missing money, that's all for wanking too? And the fact that the condoms are in his wallet merely means that he prefers to wank out of the house?

Found them a month ago while looking for parking change. Been keeping an eye on them. So next step obviously is to check emails and money. He's hiding money and has rude emails. It feels like I'm not bothered. Get Christmas done and start new years afresh?

I don't know if there is more of a back story to this, BUT do on the time put condoms elsewhere, of going away or hoping to jump dh elsewhere in the house beside our bedroom

Fuck that- kick him out now. Why spend Christmas pretending?

I'm not sure I get your post, Lisa, but do you also post naked pictures for strangers online without mentioning it to 'spice it up'?

Yea, really, why spend Xmas cleaning and cooking for him?

You are so much better than to deserve that!

I'm not bothered about having him here for Christmas. No emotions either way from me. I had terrible childhood so more bothered about it becoming a sad situation for kids. Am firm believer in not pretending! Kids always notice!

lisacould you say that in English now please?

Remove condoms from wallet.

(Resist childish urge to stick pins in them and replace.)

Replace condoms with note bearing map to place condoms should be.

Have his bag packed and ready.

Make appointment to have hair done, nails done, buy new dress and move on.

My Christmas won't be spent cooking and cleaning for him. Lots of peoe coming that I love and want to spend time with. Including his people. He is not foremost in my mind.

Sorry stupid iPhone
Was just saying I sometimes put condoms in purse or pocket if going away or hoping to jump dh elsewhere in the house.

I dont have any naked pics of me, wouldn't inflict that on anyone!!
Did he post pics online??

You've got your head screwed on, my love. Thank goodness. You'll be ok, but I'm sure it will fucking hurt like hell at some point. But you WILL be alright- much quicker than the people who put up with this shit that post so often.

Oh... I meant people! Honestly