I've not seen the 'hot date' thread Adams
Although I'm not dating I still come on here lots for a catch up etc, I kind of feel that I know a few of you on here and love hearing about how yuo are all doing whether its to do with internet dating or not so I'm staying I'm afraid
. I see this as a relationship thread rather than internet dating.
With regards to anomymity I have told Mr Yacht than I post on here. I used to post regularly on a drinking thread about a year ago as I was worried I was drinking too much, I told the guy I was seeing at the time thinking I was being very 'open' about any possible issues. I think I mentioned my nickname never thinking he would look at the thread but he did. Things were never the same again although looking back the feelings probably weren't there for me in the first place. Didn't help that I had posted that I wasn't sure if I fancied him enough, that I felt he was a safe bet and that I still had hots for a neighbour of mine. 