Here's hoping on finding a decent guy/girl under the mistletoe who doesn't use hun or text speak. Dating thread No.7

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Off you go

You know what to do

watch, seriously it is not worth seeing a picture of him!

I have no taste in men, this proves it

I don't think so! But maybe I do...?? Damn it! Off to try again!

Sponge, everyone has different taste, my taste can be dubious at the best of times.
:)

I'm.sure he is lovely.....

I. Found. It!

That's going to make some interesting reading later!!

I've a pic of mcs in his pants from this morning..its a nice pic, no cock..LOL. ill post it on the fb in the next few days.

I wonder if he has any older colleagues who would like a very willing penpal while they are away

Evening all. Rather despondent tonight as the object of my affections is working so little contact. Another 2 weeks till i see her too.

I think TG would be a bit strong for most peoples tastes. Doesn't mean there aren't elements that couldn't be enjoyed... :o

Sparks, I agree :) hes just quite full on into it. Boundaries would end up moving.

Time, lol. I did warn you.

Ah right. Well if he's full on into it there will be little chance of compromise.

NEXT!!!! :o

Sparks Hang on in there, just imagine how wonderful it's going to be when you see her in two weeks time!! Just in time to give her a fantastically huge and expensive Christmas present.

watch I'm just wondering 'why'? Why would people want to do that? What's wrong with the back seat of the car and a jar of Nutella? Why isn't that enough for folks! Why go to such extremes?

Sexuality is an interesting thing. Id happliy do research into it. I have several friends who are involved in ' different' thibgs. I think generally its a slippery slope :) boundaries get moved to reach tge high that was previously reached. Or, for those with fetishes it seems to be inherent, much as anyones sexuality is. Just they way they are. I find it fasinating, its an interesting subject ( generally, not just TG)

So, you see why id be a little out of my depth? LOL. I'm happy to paddle round the edges, but Will leave the deep water to others. However, just ever so occasionally I wonder about just dive bombing in, just to see, you know.

Mcs is a good guy, I'm 100% sure. Hes no player and has never sent a cock p

Pic or behaved in any way disrespectfully towards me. He is a gentleman. Just a filthy one :)

I know Time

And i have booked some flights for a whole week up there in Feb tonight so i suppose that's a positive! :)

As for Christmas present, i have no idea!

Nutella, yuk!

Yes, I can see what you mean with regards to sexuality. You do the research and I will read your findings

I can hear your mind whirring while thinking about MCS. I have a feeling you may well be dipping your toe in the water, all in the name of research

Surely he partakes in more 'regular' sexual activity too, no? Could you not entice him with a bit of sink breaking rather than the full on TG stuff? Preferably his sink!

Although... I think many of us have a curiosity about our own and other peoples' sexuality and just where boundaries lay. Exploring and testing with a trusted friend to be our wingman is probably not a bad way to go. There's also the aspect that if he's set the bar for kink fairly high then most of what you may dabble in would appear less edgy by comparison. I think most of us would possibly take things to another level if we were assured of anonymity and no judgement.

That's great Sparks, some 'proper' time together

I am going to pretend I didn't hear that about you having no idea for a present, for the love of your life, just two weeks before Christmas!! Now get thee straight over to Amazon for some ideas!!

Nutella, delish!

Time am still at 'whats wrong with the back seat of the car and a jar of nutella'!

(have to say even that would be racy for me as I am so dull!)

talking of Xmas presents, I have told my boss I am expecting a present from him, and that I like sparkly things .

If he buys me a bottle of Lidl cava it will all be over

You might end up with a tube of glitter then sponge

That would be even worse than the Cava! He did spend loads on our drinks last night so I shouldn't expect anything but i will of course

Can't wait! :)

I think i'll need to source this present in person. I'd rather physically see it

I don't do cards! I'm male!

Cava hate?! Prosecco is the way ahead!

Ahh but Sparks, it's not about what you do, it's about doing something for the woman you love

A glitterbomb would be the ideal pressie. It was someone sending me a link to the glitterbomb thread that first introduced me to MN.

Sparks I'm actually hoping for Champagne or jewellry :)

What are glitterbombs? Are they those mad things you put in the bath that leave glitter everywhere?!

Make a cuppa and have a read: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/mumsnet_classics/1201626-Lush-bath-bomb-and-glitter-trouble

Time I have full intentions of just making her happy. God knows i wouldn't hear the end of it if i didn't anyway! She's a gobby sort!

hate Why not expect both!? Champagne is actually overrated. A lot of other sparkling wines can be far superior at less cost. :)