Thats it really.
Today, needed the bag he usually uses for work. Unpacked all the stuff and odds and sods and unzipped the front zip pocket and there was a pair of black see through french knicker style knickers in there. They had definitely been worn.
They are in a size much smaller than me.
I told DH i had emptied his bag and put the contents in a carrier bag - "oh, including the womans dirty knickers". He didnt look shocked but said "what?" a womans dirty knickers??? etc etc. "Well that either means im cross dresser or im having an affair doesnt it? Well i can assure you im not either"
Did seem rather confused. Then started talking out loud to himself in the bathroom (never does this) that someone from work mustve put them in there "for a laugh".
What i am most stunned about is that im not really bothered by it. I sort of believe that its a prank. But even if it wasnt, im honestly not bothered. I do love DH alot, and have no complaints about him at all. I have had PND so its been tough for both of us.
We were getting ready for a day out and he was all set for a huge row and asked what we were going to do now. I just said "we are going out arent we?". He said he thought i might want to talk about it etc etc.
I just said i believe him and gave him a kiss. Didnt want to say i didnt care either way as it might offend him.
This isnt right is it?