Belting out Adele songs to your 27 cats... dating chat thread #5

[lubeybooby]

New one! Off we go :o All kind of dating, chat here.

It's ok Time I'll have it recorded and he likes xfactor too so we will watch it when we get in and have stopped shagging for long enough

ok - so what do we make of this:

have been texting with S since about 10. It seems that he thought i didnt like him, but then proceeded to tell me he had a hard on all evening, but decided he didnt want to even kiss me because that would have made it worse.
Also he knew nothing would happen, so why would he want to make himself more frustrated.

Now, this doesnt sit right with me at all. To me ( although please tell me if im being silly) it feels like he is saying that he was only wanting to kiss me if he knew for sure it was going to lead to him cumming. And since he didnt know if that was the case then he decided he would rather do nothing and then sort himself out later.

actually, him saying that has made me feel a little cheap. Even though there was even no hugging.

I'd think and feel the same way Watch. Bit of a twat alert there!

Don't like the sound of that watch. Very weird to not want to hug or kiss incase he comes. Next...

Watch - I would feel a bit cheap too if that was me. I suppose he could be rather clumsily trying to reassure you that he did like you but didnt expect anything and is instead just coming across like thats all he was interested in. Men are weird

Zany - No not too harsh at all. As said, I doubt very much he would go up to a chicken and say it has nice boobs in real life. He would be locked up block him.

Puss - Welcome, good luck with the dating sites. :)

because he did actually say he sorted himself out when he got home.
( nice, huh)

ive just said to him, that actually he didnt know that, and anything might have happened.

he came back with ' might, might might' Isnt that it would. Im not having a go. just saying.

hes a cock isnt he.

I don't understand Watch why he is asking so much about what might have happened between you seen as when you were actually on a date with him he didn't flirt, hug or kiss. Am trying to be nice and think he may just be very shy/have low self exteem when it comes to sex but not sure if he deserves it

i have no idea. I cant work it out at all.

I think im going to be really blunt and just ask him if he is just after a shag.

There was lots of flirting on the phone and in texts, but he just didnt flirt at all. I wsa flicking my hair like a mad thing, facing him, leaning in, moving chair closer, doing that play hit of the arm thing when he told a crap joke. All with no response at all, so i just gave up, i wasnt going to take it any furrther without some positive signs from him.

so, its all a bit weird to me.

ok, text sent.
Im a little pissed off actually. Either he comes up with something good that explains his weird behaviour, or i wont be seeing him again.

Not liking that watch not one bit.

no, im not liking at all either. He said his intention was not for just a shag, but should i have offered ( offered, wtaf! )a hand job/blow job or just mounted his cock then he wouldnt have stopped me.

So now i feel like he thinks he lives in some porn film. because that does not happen in real life. not without some flirting at least. A woman doesnt just go up to a man, with no encouragement at all and grab his cock. ( not unless she has known him a while in any case)

OMG, it's getting worse! Where is his respect for you? It seems all he had on his mind was sex, or rather him being serviced.

I would avoid him at all costs. Talk about spotting red flags, crikey, he's flying his red flag high and proud!

I'm sorry, Mother Hen here, but please don't date him again. You are worth much more than that, you deserve so much better than that standards YUK! He is horrible!

yes. it gets worse.

i text about the women just not going around grabbingmens cocks. and he said
' im a bloke, the only thing i would have thought is ' dont go grabbing my &^*A cock unless you are going to do something about it'

fuck this.

i can do better than that.

Too damned right you can! He could turn out to be dangerous. If he thinks he is getting the green light from a woman he might be the kind to think it's ok to go ahead regardless.

He may be a bloke but he's not a normal decent one!

offs watch, what a knob head. You can do MUCH better than that. Get rid and dont look back.

Watch - Euwwww! Awful man - showing you no respect at all. One for the bin I think.

Jeez too right you can do better than that Watch. He sounds the sort to think that a bit of a fondle = guaranteed sex!

ditch the cock.

next!

Just been asked out for a drink by Derbymann on POF - far too young but dishy

Zany - you are going for a drink with him, aren't you?

Got my date in 6 hours and still dont know what to wear! Apart from face and hand scratches and a spot I now have a cold sore. What with mother nature playing her trick on me I feel a million dollars. Still could be worse........I could have had my hair cut short and not really like it............oh yes that has happened too.
Oh well in for a penny! Good luck all those on dates this weekend.
Watch, he sounds very very creepy avoid avoid avoid!

Well I may be thinking about it knowing my luck we will arrange something and then I'll get the vanishing act

Thought you were wearing skinny jeans daisy. I wouln'd worry about the scratch's as you have a funny story to tell about how you got them and your spot and cold sore can be covered up with consealer which will make you less concious of them. My hair is shorter than its ever been and I hate it but friends do keep lying to me telling me that it looks better shorter so I am sure yours is alot better than you think.

Watch I think he sounds really weird. Just one big walking red flag.

Honestly what is it with men?

I still have my date tomorrow. Not even sure if I want to go. No particular reason, I'm just being pathetic!

Ewwww Watch he just got worse and worse. A definite one to throw on the NO! pile

I'm knackered. Is it bedtime yet?