Belting out Adele songs to your 27 cats... dating chat thread #5

[lubeybooby]

New one! Off we go :o All kind of dating, chat here.

snapes, I don't think I've seen your pic, but most of your input is more caustically supportive than harridan-like.

Cross posted!

Snape... hmm also considering that wrt to what Poppa said, see if he would just 'chat' or if he would actually arrange to meet someone. I think with something like PoF though if you aren't off it like a bat out of hell soon as you get the chance then you must still be looking in 'that' way

EG I'm still on OKC but I took off most of my pics, took the 'looking for a relationship' blurb off my profile and changed it to 'seeing someone'

I couldn't just ignore/block lubey, I would just have to have the last word-- let him know that I'm not stupid. I'm fuming on your behalf that he even dared to think you were!! Put him in his place!

That was just me personally. I have had the joys of being played before and any messages just feed the ego. The ignoring they hate

Course poppa is entirely correct, he could be just using it as a chat site. But from the text message annoyance and the fb stat thing, I would say he is still on the prowl.

I would want expect the guy who had agreed we were exclusive to spend his spare time texting me, not be trawling a dating site. It's so wrong. IMO.

Yep, I agree with stay, sorry lubey.

I would ignore and block once I had had my say stay

I reckon so too Stay!

Actions speak louder than words. That excludes sex. Some men (and women!) will say anything to hop into bed. Including the exclusive thing sadly. Maybe I am just bitter

He is STILL online. He's meant to be coming over tonight... anyone want to execute a mild sting and message him pm me for his profile...

Just to add, obviously he will NOT be coming over anyway! :o

All my earlier cheerfulness about date 3 has come to an end, he hasn't contacted me and I can't be bothered to chase. Oh well, fun while it lasted I got new clothes and got the first date after 19 years out of the way.

Sorry Lubey he turned out to be an idiot.

Enjoy your coffe watch :)

Lubey just another thought. In his mind he may well be being 'exclusive' even though he is still browsing and/or even chatting online. Did you agree to take your profiles down?

It's a tricky business this monogamy. Means different things to different people.

No, taking profiles down wasn't discussed as such... but MsCello has messaged him with an offer to meet so will see what he says... bearing in mind he was due here at 8pm...

Ohh I'm feeling a bit nervous. I'm hoping he turns MrsC down, telling her he is in a relationship. It would be nice to know that not all men are the same.

lubey what an utter cock he is. esp didn't you say the other day he was discussing Xmas stuff with you - the cheek of him!

Hope he gets well and truly caught out...I liked Time's monkey analogy, I suspect that is true of most men

So...date tonight. Sheets changed. Feeling nervous and slightly sick, almost tempted to cancel. Will prob be back here updating by 9.30pm if he's a horror/doesnt fancy me/doesn't turn up. All of which are possible. Staying in with wine and chocolate seems a vastly preferable alternative.

I'm not dating atm, but would just like to say

I LOVE THIS THREAD TITLE, ME

thanks

as you were

Oooh sponge Have a great time. Have the wine and chocolate ready for if you are back home at 9.30pm

time I wish I was excited! Wine and choc in reserve is a good idea though

Good luck sponge!

Typically enough BoR is now offline and don't think he got MsCellos message yet. But he still hasn't text me either.

Good luck sponge - have a fantastic time :)

SHJ good title isn't it! :o I can't claim credit though it was from a facebook group that charlottesmum mentioned

Am on my phone, so.thos is short but sweet.

Good luck sponge

Lubey. Hes a cock. Love shineys idea. So sorry this has happened.

And nice divert poppa! Lol

Is he supposed to be texting you to arrange tonight lubey or is he likely to just turn up?

no response yet but don't know if he has seen it yet

Good luck sponge, hope you have a lovely time but if you don't, I say get the wine and chocs on route home

I'm still chatting (text/phone/msn) to Mr Muscles, he is really growing on me but no idea when we will meet. I prefer to meet early on to see if there is potential but stupid shift patterns are making it very difficult. He seems quite keen on me too but we all know how some men can be. He hasn't spoken about his late wife much, which worries me but he did direct me to his Facebook where he has pics and montage of her - not sure if good or bad. Do feel for him though as he has said she is a presence that scares people -YUP!