thanks.
Yeah, it was at mine. Babysitters are hard to get, and following one too many being let down at the last momment embarassments, or worse, going out and then returning half an hour later... ive vowed not to ask for a babysitter unless its a few dates in.
Which basically leaves my dating to every other weekend. Seeing as ive sort of known him ( from another dating site two years ago) then i though it was ok, and he was pushing to see me sooner. Tv was at mine. He said he would bring a film, turned up with human centipede, after i had said no torture porn/slasher/scary things. Ended up watching one of mine i already had.
he literally came in, sat down on the sofa and didnt move all evening. Sat facing forward, no leaning to talk to me, nothing.
i dont get it.
Though actually, i should have listened to my instincts, i knew we would have nothing in common, hence saying no for two years, this is my damn friends fault.
yes, my taste in men might have led to me still being single, but least ive had fun in the meantime. Id rather rather handle an ego like mr ' that was the fuck of your life, wasnt it' ( because, its a little amusing) than mr ' gotta love a big telly' and 'im grown up, i registered with a nectar card today' sigh
lubey - sod him. Ive had far too many dates that have been planned then the man has just disappeared.
in the interests in anyone being able to see where im going wrong, here is a qucik run down of my dating history since the summer.
Mr blonde - finally gave into a date after much the same situation as last nights guy, though i should give him a chance, went round his, we made plans for the next day to go out, we had wine, eneded up in bed. next day heard nothing. Que a confession a few days later that he was in love with someone and it wsant going to go anywhere. Ended up casually fucking for about 2 months, when drink was involved. He was blonde, i never fancy blonde men. and he was an idiot. ( though a well paid posh idiot )
While i was casually fucking i had another date with tattoo guy. Who was very very very attractive. Again, another one who had been after a date for awhile. We went out and had the most excellent night, jagermeister shots drunk from the bar, i ended up djing in the pub, havent been so drunk since i was about 20. He asked if he could come back to mine as he wanted to spend more time with me. I had intended on not sleeping with him, so had gone out with unshaved legs by way of guarantee. Que me at home, drunkly shaving my legs at 4am. Got back into the bedroom and he had fallen asleep. Text two days later than he had just split up with his girlfriend and wasnt ready for anything but not to take it personally.
Two coffee dates, both with the most boring men on earth, couldnt get out of their quick enough.
date with this other guy ( mr 3 weeks ago) really nice date, ended up in bed ( rum was involved) lots of contact since, and despite saying he wants to see me again, has actualyl failed to organise anything.
Coffee date, again, frickin awful
Date with mr friday. yeah, you know all about that.
date with the policeman - dire.
In between this you need to remember the dates ive cancelled, like mr wilderness, because ive decided i didnt want to go for some reason or another, or the other dates when ive been stood up, or they have just vanished into thin air a day before the actual date.
if anyone wants to look at my profile - let me know and ill pm you. Though, to be fair, i think on the whole it doesnt matter what they say, most men dont seem to read them.