bf hurts me when we have sex

[CheshireGirl38]

Have new boyfriend. Sex is fab BUT...he is a big boy and in some positions it hurts when we make love. Mostly from behind but I know he loves it like this and he doesn't mean to hurt me and has said so more than once. The other day I nearly asked him to stop but he was so worked up (we'd been working our way up to sex from behind) that it was over before I had to. I don't want to let him down but am not into pain! What should i do? Never though I would be complaining about a man being too big for me.In other positions its just about as good as it gets.

OOH yes let's talk about SEX and POSITIONS in graphic detail.

id do what i like - its totally about me - not him

just tell him when it hurts to go easy

Put pile cream on his knob prior to sex - it will shrink him and provide a thrilling tingle to boot.

HTH

Good idea Getorf. After all it's just information and support isn't it. Not like anybody would be trying to use mumsnet to get themselves off. Phew - good job nobody is so inadequate as that eh?

Gosh yes, just HOW big is he?

I know.

I personally always use brand new parenting forums to ask about sex advice at 1am. I find it quite productive. I think I may now go over to netmums to ask for advice about diy scrotum waxes.

is he from Cheshire? I think I might know him

is he called jim, does he have hairy hands and drive a truck?

I reckon he is called Daz, is from Warrington and works in the warehouse of a factory whihc manufctures zips.

i had that prob i found it quite painful found on top much better id pass out from behind omg

A zip manufacturer, not a trucker?

tell big hairy Jim Jasper says Hello

What you need to do it control it more.

Try having him lie down on his back on the bed. Turn so your back is facing him, then slowly lower yourself down onto the sofa in the living room and find something to watch on the tv.

That position always works for me especially if there's chocolates & to hand Puffin

Narky: that is fucking genius and by far the best sex advice I have seen on MN

Narky

Narky, you've just made me laugh out loud - without a doubt the best sex advice I've ever seen! :o

Heheheh Narky

Nearly threw up my breakfast when I read this, surely OP could have found a more pervy relevant site to brag about how 'big' her 'bf' is!

Well done Narky I'm going to give that a try.

Sometimes you might want to use cushions for extra support

Oh, OP. . I feel your pain. These things are sent to try us, aren't they?

Best advice ever Narky