bf hurts me when we have sex

[CheshireGirl38]

Have new boyfriend. Sex is fab BUT...he is a big boy and in some positions it hurts when we make love. Mostly from behind but I know he loves it like this and he doesn't mean to hurt me and has said so more than once. The other day I nearly asked him to stop but he was so worked up (we'd been working our way up to sex from behind) that it was over before I had to. I don't want to let him down but am not into pain! What should i do? Never though I would be complaining about a man being too big for me.In other positions its just about as good as it gets.

PMSL Narky

OP, have a , it'll take your mind off the pain.

Superb advice. DD asked me why I snorted. I am not one to visit these boards. If that's the quality of advice, I must try to stop by more often.

Struggling to be sympathetic emoticon ...

Narky gets the prize for Best Advice Ever. That's brilliant! Go Narky! Narky for President!

Narky

Serious advice: Avoid anything that suggests deep penetration. No to behind.
Yes to Missionary, legs together

Good grief I really hope this isn't a troll post now....

Wish my Boyfriends cock was so big it hurt me, I just have to make do with average and ill experienced

narkys advice is brilliant hope op managed to find some relief

Why should it be a troll???? Big is better than small! I prefer good average to anything else though, so you're probably not missing out that much HG. My ex dh was very big - it was like the lower part of someone's arm. All you can do is just go very slowly. In time your body will probably become more used to it. From behind was out for me though - way too painful!

electra - only worried about the troll thing because giving serious advice

so he says he doesn't mean to hurt you but keeps doing it anyway because he loves it?
sounds like a selfish arse. Why put up with it?

umm not sure he knows he's hurting her yet....

"he doesn't mean to hurt me and has said so more than once"
Why would he say it if he didn't know?

woops, sorry!

still don't think it's quite that clear cut though....

' it was like the lower part of someone's arm.'

Yes, but whose arm would that be?

Joan Rivers or... Giant Haystacks?

Sigh...I thought this was about breastfeeding whilst having sex!

narky shriek !
bonkers LOL

I think I'm a little bit in love with you Narky. Can I tempt you back upstairs with a ?

Narky that is genius!

All Hail Narky- can I join the appreciation society?

free for Narky

if the OP is hairytruckergetsoffonMN off you jog now deariepants.

if the OP is genuine, just tell him its bloody agony and find some other way that works for you both, hardly rocket science.

Narky that is great advice.

To continue the theme, you could try spicing things up by exploring some fantasies maybe? Handcuff your DH to the bed and, very slowly and gently, ease your hand into his pocket, take out his wallet and then begin to increase the pace by running out of the front door, getting into the car and driving yourself to the nearest luxury hotel.

I just want to add that Narky's advice was one of the funniest things I have ever read -