is having cyber sex cheating ?

[ishouldknowbeta]

i should know better as my name change sugests
im married and have 3 kids
its not a happy marriage
i dont love him and he knows it
sex with him kaes me feel sick
so do you consider this cheating ?
bearing in mind im never likely to meet these people
btw ive only done it twice

Your children will blame you ?

What are you talking about ?

My mother stayed (and still stays) in an unhappy and verbally abusive marriage for 40+ years.

I blame her for not getting out. I blame her for using us kids as a weak excuse to not kick my idiot of a father into touch. She inflicted him on me, all through my childhood. And if I want to maintain any sort of relationship with her, I am forced to tolerate someone that I would rather never see again as long as I live

Be very, very careful about the responsibility you place on a child's shoulders when you say you stay for them. In some cases, that is an excuse , not a valid reason.