What is the definition of great sex?

[ladycurious]

I see it mentioned on here often when people say we have great sex blah blah, just trying to work out what "great sex" actually means!

Unfortunately that link doesn't mention liking/not liking PIV.

It equates it to murder, hence the comment about mentioning PIV there potentially ruining your sex life.

Never any mention from me that you must be stupid to not like PIV. I quite enjoy TIV :)

tiv ?

never mind, I get it (I think)

There's no definition ? but you'll know it when it happens.

PIV?

Ah, zany, you read my mind...! :o

penis in vagina

Crikey.

This is pissing me off something terrible. I have now realised that at 50 odd I have never had great sex.

It will mean different things to different people but to me its being attracted to the man so much you always want to shag them, build up through the day through texts/sexual tension, always knowing the sex is going to be satisfying for us both and orgasms every time as your man knows what you like.

Thats good as you are always satisfied and the sex makes you think wow, for me that means I always want it and regardless of babies, work, pregnancy whatever I still want it as much as I did when we first got together. As I know it is always good, with the man I love who I am extremely attracted to.

I have took it or left it with some men in the past as it just was not all that or I wasnt iin to the person enough. However been married 7 years, with 1 child, 1 on the way and I dont think sex/passion towards each other has to slow down at all.

From a mans point of view, the closer you can get to pornstar qualities the better :)

Dickhead.

I never have great sex. It's more like a bleedin' chore for me.

Last night is the definition..........maybe tonight too if I'm very lucky!

Ha Ha!

I was thinking that what defines great rather than just good sex is spontaneity or alternatively, the build up and anticipation.

But for you girls its all about the orgasm isn't it.

No kingvis its everything i one its the the 12 hour shifts when your apart and the texts you send each other to keep each other on your toes, its the knowing from the moment you up you want it and you have excrutiating hours of waiting as you have to be apart. Its then you finally having the kids in bed and knowing your alond together. Its the orgasm, build up, anticaption, having a man that takes ages to pleasure and tease you and dong it in return. Then knowing you wake up next to that man every morning to me :)

im so jealous jellybeans208

When the memory of it makes you so horny you have to nip off to the loo at work to sort yourself out.

Sunday mornning sex does it for me - slow and a bit sleepy. Go back to sleep for an hour and then start again and then lie in eachothers arms and the whole room just smells of it.

We don't have any DC yet though...........

How lovely and evocative all of your descriptions are. Delicious.

Great sex for me is when my partner wants to have sex with me as much as I do them, they show enthusiasm during, a willingness to try different things, are confident to take control/lead the way at times and are able to achieve orgasm.

None of the above currently applies.

I can't put into words what it is

This.

I’d also say that if you have to ask, youve never had it.

Me.

Something I've always meant to ask on here is about people who hate condoms because they "ruin the mood".I thought they were just being silly as it never seemed to ruin anything for me but now I'm starting to think maybe the sex wasn't that exciting and there was no mood to ruin? Graphically, how do condoms ruin the mood?