Actually Dodo999, I met a guy who described a relationship very much like yours. he left her in the end, but she still continues to taunt him by 'accidentally' sending him explicit texts meant for her current victim partner.
I can understand your feelings towards women, I hold the same about men tbh as a result of my experiences, but I don't think what you describe is right, or actually appropriate.
Men do suffer from domestic violence, EA and all the other little gems these despicable abusers mete out in their quest for total domination. Somehow it must be complicated for a male in the situation I was in to seek help, stigmas and stereotypes etc.
Dodo, if you are for real, then please think about your audience. Your posts are probably justifiably angry, but could also be seen as inflammatory. You have to know that there are more women than men, and most of the posts here on Relationships are either he's banging someone else, or treating me like crap, and it turns out that he's actually been abusing her for ages and she can't see it.... So while some will be ill-disposed to men at the moment for good reason, some of us do know that it's not only women that are abused.
You said you refrained from battering her, but you also talked about cowering on the sofa waiting for her to finish. You weren't in a position to batter anyone, or you'd have defended yourself. Nothing wrong with that, we all can only do what we are ready to do.
Took me years to speak up and question X's bullshit.