If you find yourself wobbling, READ THIS.
Check out the links in the left column:
'What is Bezness'
'Signs of Bezness'
'How Bezness happens'
'Bezness prevention'
'Bezness victims'
From 'How Bezness happens':
'Generally, they are 3 target groups:
single, young and well situated women
single elderly women
all women
and the objectives are, in this order:
Visa to a western country
Financial donations
Fun in bed'
From 'Bezness victims'
'First a warning - if a woman was trapped by a Bezness man, and finds it out and then wants to terminate the relationship or divorce/seperate, she should be cautious.
In the year 2008, there have been several incidents in which women in such a "last debate" were raped, physically injured and in one case even killed.
To such a debate, a woman should therefore never go alone (take a friend, ideally, a male, with her) and, in particular, never stay alone with the ex-lover in a remote or non-public place (eg. an apartment).'
You must not talk with this man again, ever. If he manages to contact you and wants to talk things over tell him NO. If he persists and still contacts you, tell him to hire a solicitor, and you must contact the police
Rejecting a man like this is a serious blow to his vanity and sense of entitlement relating to women. You will be in serious physical danger if you ever meet him or keep up any sort of contact with him. Watch out for the safety of your DDs too. Don't take the danger lightly.
(The site is written by someone whose first language is not English, probably German.)