affair,stalking ?hypnosis!!!

[basketswing]

Just coming out of wierd and awful situation, partner had sex with someone he met on purpose made site for 2 weeks, i found out when someone rang and told me, thats one part of the story other is a tale of borderline stalking to him plus phone calls to myself, his sister re untrue affairs but all with correct info re names, plans and to my parents, cant understand where shes getting info from as amongst the lies that shes spreading theres an awful lot of personal details, he wonders if phone/house bugged but still wouldnt explain everything, someone else suggested ?he was hypnotised. Any idears/thoughts?

Rather more obvious that he has simply been talking to her, and she has remembered it all.

Zebras, hoofbeats etc.

It's far more likely that he's just talked to the woman as well as shagged her than she went to the lengths of hacking his pc.

My dad cheated on my step-mother whilst working abroad. The OW looked through his phone and then phoned my SM to tell her what he was up to.

He's probably tried to call the affair off - hence her angry behaviour.

My dad's OW was playing a long game - she now has a wedding ring and a British passport.

Pillow talk

Karma

Two poor women have been lied to here.

And it seems both of them have fallen hook, line and sinker for the bollocks coming out of this guy's mouth

Is there something really special about him, that makes women lose all their common sense ? A dick made out of solid gold perhaps ?

Another dissappearing op!!

Another dissappearing op!!

Maybe she has disappeared because it has suddenly [from reading all these posts] become crystal clear that her DH has been lying/cheating and she now feels silly.

If thats the case dont feel silly OP, come back and lots of people will support you.

Ah.. The classic moves of a cheating spineless spunk trumpet.

Op try and access the website or, if the cards are out on the table,and he is now truly honest ask him to log into the account infront of you, show the ad and all the correspondance to you.

Chances are you will find he has set up a tragic " It's a first time for me, I'm nervous but I need special discreet cuddles because my wife is frigid, and I feel so lonely in my marriage, however I am a hero type to my kids, so I am going to stick it out the marriage" type bollocks account.

Add this to a risky cocktail of a lonely woman who confuses sex and affection, and is clearly on the wrong website for "discreet adult hookups".

The rest is called pillow talk. A little bit of guilt, a little bit of her being the free spirit....a lot of "mindblowing sex" and he spilled his guts about his life. (they actually had women do this in the war to find out manouvres!)

It's all very dubious, i would suggest you tell him that you both attend the police station together to make a statement including the hows and whys of her becoming a "stalker" and the look on his face will be proof enough. The police will need all the details.

The lying prick. Glad to see he put the safety of you and your family before his twitchy dick.

Helllooooooooo OP?

I am loving "cheating spineless spunk trumpet"

Really hope that OP is OK though. I was just re reading some bits and realised there was mention of a secret love child. I really hope THAT bit isn't true