WHY do men do this?

[forsure]

I was online dating a while back and at one point was talking to this man who while he seemed very nice was a bit over keen with the texts and i backed off.
Fast forward a year and i restarted online dating and he messaged me. We had a bit of a natter via the site and he seemed much more chilled out. So we swapped numbers again and have been having text conversations for about 3 days.

Nice normal, getting to know you type stuff.

Until last night.

Texts got a bit innuendo like, fine, it was fun and flirty. Then, bam! cock picture sent to my phone. There had been no talk to cocks. Or of pictures. Indeed he had sent no pictures at all.
He started asking for one of me, i kept saying no, i was not going to send pics of me like that to somone i hadnt met. He would say thats fine i dont have to do anything i dont want to, but two seonds later i would get another text telling me to ' come on, send a pic, i want to wank over you'

nice

Then i got a recorded voice file in which i could clearly him him wanking talking in great detail what he wanted to do to me.

I am not impressed. In fact i feel a bit depressed about it.
WHY!!!!

( clearly im not going to meet up with him now) But i just dont get why on earth men do this?

Have you looked up his profile on Cockbook?

loving the contribution by the boys!

cockbook? crying laugh!

Sadly internet dating is prone to cock photo wankers, was it on plentyoffish? I found there to be a higher proportion of them on there, but no, not all men are like this, only the sad wankery types :(

If he doesn't back off tell him you'll report him to telephone company as he had broken telcommunication laws by sending the pic. x

Im sure he will back off. I have not responded to his text this morning.
Surely he cant think that im still wanting to meet up?

Just sure as hell i do not understand men at all. What do they think sending a pic of their cock will do? send women into spontaenous orgasms?
And how on earth could any man think that id happily send a pic of my 'bits' before ive even said hello?
Like... urgh. just dont understand men... prehaps thats why im single?

I've just had a thought. Just to return the favour of the cock picture,why don't you text him a picture of 'blue waffle' (or would that be a bit much?)

What's 'blue waffle' or do I not want to know....

forsure, you must be glad you are single. Can you imagine being the partner of one of these "men"?

Though I'm sure they all live with their mums, to be honest.

OMFG!!

I just googled 'blue waffle'

Sorry sorky!

(Hopefully, it would have the same effect on the pervy man.)

Just text him back a picture of a biscuit

preferably a jammy dodger

He won't have a clue what you're on about

Btw I take it that a blue waffle is NOT a type of biscuit

I am not going to google because we're going food shopping in a minute.

why do men think that a woman seeing a pic of their cock will make them instantly drop their knickers and moan "shag me, shag me now"

tbh, cocks are the most ridiculous-looking pieces of flesh in the world

they are funny not sexy until you are down to the nitty-gritty, when their status changes completely

men

your cocks are silly, not sexy

you may be cockstruck but we are not

It does look rather silly, doesn't it? And it keeps popping up when they don't want it to. We might have the wrong time of the month for a few days at a time over 30 years or so, but they have to live with that... with that their whole lives, poor dears. A lot of them try to brazen it out by pretending (even to themselves) that this thing is absolutely integral to being a real human being.

Just be thankful that he outed himself as a total knob before you wasted anymore time on him!

The "last chicken in the shop" look is not a turn-on and I really don't understand why men think it is - I blame porn.

Oooh... can i join in. Don't ask me why but I googled my ex today (it's a long story), I googled his email address and hey presto (not a shock by any means) there was his email address attached a wide range of swingers/orgy/transvestite, transexual, video link, dogging sites etc. I had a look on one of the sites and was shocked to see that there were over 2000 pages (pages not people - pages of people) of people advertising themselves for swinging, orges and the like!!!! It's no wonder I'm single - all the men in my area are spending all their time swinging!!!!!

I don't get it

Just did a litle experiment

I goodled Dh's email address

zilch, nada, not one hit

now I didn't expect to find him on dogging sites (unless he uses a different email ) but why no hits at all ???

googled even

goodling it wouldn't be very useful

"Maybe the lonely, young and impressionable."

Um.. yes. Having been 14/15/16/17 and in posession of an msn account I can vouch for the fact it works on the lonely young and impressionable

Although I must stress not in the sense that I saw the cock pictures and instantly thought swoon, but that 99% of the teenage boys I spoke to on msn sent them so instead of being shocked I was a bit "That's nice dear, yes, very big, lovely" and filed them away in the recycle bin while not wanting to tell them it made me want to laugh/puke in case I harmed their delicate teenage (okay, male) egos. I honestly just thought that was something all guys did.

Seems really really odd that grown men would do it though. Surely they have realised by now??

I googled my email address too and nothing came up. My ex has a very distinct name in his address - I'll get the website where I saw 2000 plus pages and you can have a look at how many GROWN men (and bi-sexual) men there are in the my area - actually no, I won't because then you'll know where I'm from. I don't want to have to namechange.

Just googled ex email address, only one website came up with full email address, but 3 pages full when I googled just the first part of his email address. So for example, [email protected] just type anyfucker. Obviously it would have to be a rare front name so that you don't get too many sites shortlisted.

I googled myself (real name) and email (includes my real name within it)

just one entry

a FB page of someone who is not me

which is weird because I am on FB !!

waahahhhhh, I don't exist !

AnyFucker is all over the fecking internet though

Take a picture of a mountain of dirty washing up, and send him that.

Common as muck Anyfucker. I found it really quite disturbing the number of men on these sites who were bisexual or looking for anything goes couple, groups. I'm not by any means a prude but really it's quite distasteful IMO, but it is only my opinion.

Sorry meant to say bisexual and married - I suspect their wives don't know about their private advertisements - or maybe I'm naive.