is it too late

[mummynoseynora]

Is 30 too late to try 'toys' ? If not... what would you recommend?!

That simple really

knew I should have put bumsex in the title!

of course it's not too late!!

scrabble is always fun

of course its not ive heard that anne summers rabbit is supposed to be good ]:)

what have you tried before if anything?

Lubricant is the best. Not a toy but makes everything a lot more fun.

I know nothing at all about "them things", but am bewildered at anyone thinking that 30 would be too late... do people stop having sex at 30 these days?! Ask again when you're 85, and even then the answer is likely to be "if it works for you, go for it".

Yes...lol at 30 being too old! Go to Anne Summers and have a good look around. Buy a basic, small vibrator....and have a go on your own to get the feel of it with no pressure. Great fun!

Anne Summers are okay, but I prefer LOVE HONEY

And 30 is not too old for sex toys, infact you need to make up for lost time!

I was just about to suggest Love Honey.

Great minds Mouseface

Yes, where is Mal? I'd have thought she'd have been here already

Me too Chaotic - She's normally tuned into threads like this, like she has a sex thread radar or something!

I thought she had something set up on her computer that alerts her to when sex (toys) is mentioned on a thread

30 isn't too late for ANYTHING! Go for it, experiment, see what you like, what you don't. There is some eye-opening stuff out there!

I was 30 when I got my very first rabbit, took me 6 months to even take it out the box though, have a whole selection of 'toys' now

You cheeky lot!

I've been away for a lovely week in Scotland with DH for our anniversary, come back on here and see my name besmirched .

I was 42 before we tried any toys. I still think lube is the best sex aid ever though, bullets are in 2nd place, I don't like the rabbit type much but one would suffice if I didn't have DH .

Lucky you going to Scotland...

...did you see much of it?

We drove over 700 miles ( feels like we walked that far too ), it was beautiful and we had amazing weather, not a lot of sex though, we were too bloody knackered! The first night's four poster bed saw some action though .

Thanks All!!

I didn't think it was past it honest guv I meant I kind of thought that most peeps try them before 30 if they are gonna?!

I have used lube - its become a permanent addition since having the DC!

I couldn't possibly go IN ann summers!!! for a start I would have the DC in tow which wouldn't happen! But other than that I'd be embarassed!!

Any recommendations for a starting point? Happy to buy online - eeek! I normally prefer clitoral stimulation - but extremely sensitive I come REALLY easily!

bumsex!

Lots of places online do "variety packs"!! and often state that the packaging will be discreet (and discreet on bank statements etc if that matters depending on age of your DCs!!). Just had a brainwave and realised ann summers is itself online (Ann Summers)

Have a glass of wine and a giggle at the bewildering varieties and then get ordering!

Ann Summers is BY FAR the best place to get your toys if you are looking for quality.

However, I would definitely NOT recommend the Rampant Rabbit.

The ones that are good for testing out for a first timer are the ones that you can put the tip of on your clit.

The Rabbit is only any good to those that orgasm with penetrative sex and this is only 25% of women. So best hedging your bets with one of the others.

oooo am an ex Ann Summers party organiser. The bullet is amazing if you like clitoral stimulation if you want to pm me your address I have a couple of brand new and sealed ones left from when I worked for them am happy to pop them in the post.

I promise that I won't make the envelope with anything other than my return address, evil as I am that would be too far even for me!

or even mark the envelope sorry oops.

DC are 4 and 1 so in that respect I am safe!

don't even know how to bring it up with DH! Have mentioned once or twice over the years that I have considered them and just never got around to doing anything about it - he even offered to buy me one once!

oh boob are you sure? I wouldn't want to take advantage? did they cost you anything?!

eeek!

wouldn't have offered if I wasn't sure. Happy to help in your sexual awakening

I would suggest that you try it on your own first time and then tell your DH all about it, he might quite like this

you've got pm

eeeeeeeeeeeek

Thanks boob!