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I've just discovered a stash of women's clothes in my husband's wardrobe

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speculationisrife · 09/03/2011 07:10

In a size 16, and I'm an 8-10 (and so is his sister). I'm not sure whether to be more troubled that he hasn't told me about them, or that there is a Per Una peasant-style skirt in there. Seriously, though, I was just looking to pinch a hanger when he was out last night and noticed them at the end of the shirts and trousers. It may seem odd that I've only just seen them, but we have quite big wardrobes and put away our own clothes.

In the past we've had 'jokey' conversations in which he's implied he wouldn't be averse to dressing up. And, honestly, I don't have a problem with it, just would find it a bit of a turn off if he did it in front of me.

So... do I keep quiet and assume it's his private thing and let him keep it that way. Or do I say something so that he knows it's OK with me, and not something he has to be embarrassed about (apart from the Per Una skirt and the dress with the girly smocking, of course, both of which he damn well should be embarrassed about)? I'm wondering if, given that they were left in plain-ish sight, he might quite like me to know.

I guess it's always possible I've got completely the wrong end of the stick, but they are new without tags, so I can't imagine what else they'd be for.

I've namechanged, by the way, as I know quite a few local MNers in RL. If I don't respond quickly it's because I'm trying to get to work and, once there, actually do some work. Would appreciate your advice, though.

OP posts:
LostMyIdentityAlongTheWay · 28/05/2012 20:02

Op my husband is a tranny. If you need advice or anything please feel free to PM me. There will not be an emotion you experience that I've not gone through.

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