where does one go to meet men?

[kittya]

just had a lovely day/night out with my friends. One, who is not single, turned to me and said "dont worry, there is someone out there for everyone" oh, really? where do 40+ blokes with their own teeth (not bothered about hair) hang out then? cos all I saw today was lots of twentysomethings out for the football.

Go on a skiing holiday! Ski Club of Great Britain have loads. Men always outnumber women on ski holidays.

If I knew one end of a pole from another believe me, I would

Definitely skiing or other outdoor sport. First time skiing I said "So this is where all the men are."

imo you don't need to know. There are lessons and generally you only need be game. Men seek game and joie de vivre more than expertise, err, speaking generally. It's a case of 90% is just showing up.