I've posted about this guy before.
I met a man a month ago in a club and have been seeing him ever since. There have been some positives; he's lovely with my dd and spends time with her. He gave me perfume and cooks for me, the sex is FANTASTIC but tbh I'm getting big alarm bells.
He says he loves me but I'm not sure if he does. He's got a very close female friend (like his sister) who he sees regularly. He is from Spain and so is he and I know it's important for him to have mates from his own country here in the UK. She just copped off with one of his mates so she's claerly not a big threat but I do feel very insecure about it.
He was planning a meal for us all tonight. She was invited and so was I so I could meet her.
Recently he has been bringing his computer to mine because his internet is down at his place and when he comes here he prints off some stuff for work then goes on facebook. Bloody fucking facebook.
My dd has got attached to him and last night she was crying for him to give her a cuddle but he ignored her because he was busy messaging this femnale friend on facebook. She had messaged him to cancel the meal tonight.
I hitb the roof. I feel it's awful of him to get close to my dd and then blow her out. He just said that it was the first time he has done this.
He went home, I asked (no begged) him to come back so we could sort it out. He came back. We argued, we cried and had great sex and then he went back on the computer. It's a slippery slope isn't it?
Plus he called me crazy for feeling insecure about this girl. It just feels wrong.
I'm so sad becaue it was going well but he's sooo full on. I'd rather he spent less time at my house and spent proper time with his mates than spend all the time at my house and not so much quality time. so sad that I've been a mug again.