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Says he doesn't love me anymore.

57 replies

hoppershopper · 16/02/2011 18:42

In short, i dont have a lot of time...
Been married/together for 10 yrs have 2 dcs. After many problems in the past 6 months due to husbands out of order behaviour, drinking too much wanting to go out every weekend till 6 am, we have sat and discussed how to make our relationship better. We seemed to be getting there and can say all the things we need to do but now husband tells me he isn't in love with me Anymore.
I completely reeling, he says he wants to make it work and he doesn't want to leave, but I just feel so hurt, I don't know what to do.
I'm finding it really hard to be nice to him and bet things on track when I feel like he is a stranger.
Can we fix this?

OP posts:
Roisinniamh · 17/02/2011 11:19

Just ask him straight out and if you're not fully convinced by his answer then do detective work. Good Luck!

PeterAndreForPM · 17/02/2011 18:32

where has OP gone ?

abedelia · 18/02/2011 00:41

Don't ask him, fgs. He'll know you're onto him and hide all evidence.

StuffingGoldBrass · 18/02/2011 10:30

Two things: Ok some clubs do stay open till 6am.
More importantly, 'I love you but I'm not in love with you' invariably means 'I want you to carry on cooking my meals, washing my socks, cleaning the house and doing the childcare while I do exactly what I like which will include having sex with other women.'

hoppershopper · 18/02/2011 19:08

Sorry I am here, things have gotten a bit rough :( will come back here and update ? Thank you so far for your replys.

OP posts:
robberbutton · 18/02/2011 19:10

Sorry OP, hope you're ok.

PeterAndreForPM · 18/02/2011 20:58

come back when you can x

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