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Tracking Devices? Anyone know about them?

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AlienZombieMum · 19/12/2010 13:18

Does anyone know anything about using a tracking device / gps to catch a cheating spouse?

For logistical reasons I cannot follow him (don't drive, kids in bed, no babysitters), I have had my suspicions for months and check his phone regularly when he sleeps (never lets it out his sight when awake) , but cannot find anything (all deleted). Asked to borrow it once and he gave me it but looked shifty, took it for 24 hrs and let him think he'd "lost" it - nada! Although he did "have" to go out urgently 2 mins after he thought he had lost it - prob to a payphone to tell her not to call.

He doesn't have a computer at all and doesn't have access to mine.

He is self-employed as a driver so chooses his own hours and has no workplace . Have checked his car.

However, I have good reason to believe he is not actually at work when he says he is although I cannot prove it. I have a good inkling of where he may be, so if I could put a mobile phone with a tracker in his car or something like that I could confront him with evidence he cannot deny.

Does anyone know a (reputable) way of getting and setting up one of these devices? Would a private investigator supply you with one? The vehicle is actually in my name although he is on insurance so I don't think it would be illegal?

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Patienceobtainsallthings · 18/02/2011 16:13

They have an encyclopaedia I reckon
"The art of headfuckery " LOL
Have u read why does he do that by lundy bancroft another book is co dependant no more melody beattie and women that love too much robin norwood.they helped me see it clearer.basically he sees u as a tiny 5p piece but he is a 50 p piece much more entitled to do what he wants and always justified.he pushed the boundaries for years to see what he could get away with and eventually u didn't put up with it anymore,damn right.before then I'm guessing ur life was full on with kids and its only when the babies get a bit bigger u stop and "wait a minute" then u shout ,only cos no one is flaming listening to ur point of view.big hugs honey ,if he doesn't step up to the plate its tough for the first year but please believe everyone that u r better off without him and life does get better ,u just have to have the guts to do it .keep posting ,write on the dumpling threads too if u want ,it helped me loads ,best of luck x

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