Internet sex

[ExLondonGirl]

my dh said he wants us to have sex on a webcam. HELP, im not sure whether to do it. he said we could wear masks so no one recognises us. im scared but also oddly excited. surely there is no harm in it

Only if you wear a giant rubber Gordon Brown mask and he's Tony Blair

Well there is a risk (as with any internet communication) of it being hijacked or reposted and, like, being on the web forever. Though wearing masks/wigs is a reasonable disguise unless one or both of you has a really recognisable scar, tattoo or piercing.
Basically, if you set up a separate email addy for the whole thing and never use your real names (if you are inclined to yell each other's actual name at the moment of orgasm, you might need to rethink this) it's not that risky, given that you could always claim, if anyone says they've seen your footage, that it wasn't you and they must be nuts.

Oh, and brace yourself right now for a deluge of whiners telling you that your H is abusive and a disgusting porn-obsessed womanhater even to suggest such a thing...

My first reaction was no. But now I'm trying to decide on which mask, who shall I be :-) tbh, could liven things up. Theres not been much action of late!

Who would he be planning on broadcasting too?

If you decide on a Nicole Scherzinger mask and your performance doesn't clash with BBC Sports Personality of the year or The Apprentice final then by all means post a link.

Whoever is watching. It's anonymous

Reminds me of when I was with exH and he was always videoing us having sex (this was quite a few years ago!).

I had some friends round one evening and wanted to show them a vid of me doing some presentation or other. Found said vid and began playing it. Everything OK for a few minutes, me in my best suit telling an audience about demographic changes over the next 10 years... then there was a break and my ex's hairy arse complete with dangling bollocks suddenly appeared centre screen. He was wearing a very fetching PVC jock-strap as well.

Needless to say I ran screaming from the room and was never allowed to forget it

Go for it, if it spices up your love-life it's a great idea. But couldn't somebody recognise you from your un-masked bits?

I'd do it.

The only harm in it would be if you agreed when you didn't want to really do it.

Why does this interest him? Do you find it exciting cos it's daring and taboo? Or is it a fanatsy of yours too?

I'd def consider it if it interested me.

Imagine some saddo wanking to you having sex, ewww, I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a spoon.
How is that a turn on?

I don't know Mal, but I quite enjoy the idea of helping some saddo get his (or even her ) jollies!

Fair enough nemo.

Yeah, I do find the thought exciting. I'm thinking opera masks. Leaves the lower half of the face free :-)

See now if I ever see a porn film by accident I have to stop myself from commenting on the house - some of them im sure are shaggin' in their Grannys house and youd think theyd put away their dcs toys before they start buzz lightyear really can put a dampener on group sex .....also youd have to be sure your bedroom was very tidy and there were no stains on the duvet or dirty coffee cups lying around .....come to think of it you might need to redecorate ....It might be more of a hassle than you think.

Just a thought - youre not one of those trialing the flip camera for mumsnet are you ......now that could get you a £50 amazon voucher too lmao.

We are live not flip! That wasn't the site he showed me, but will check it out. Anyone here done it before ???

there is a poster called "snowflake" soemthing-or-other who does cam stuff

It intrigues me the way SGB always makes sex sound so functional and....well, dull really.

Wear masks, dont call out each others names and go for it.

If you are both willing I cant see the problem.

I'd do it and I would be very curious to see how many people watch it.

It amazes me that SGB actually has time to have sex. She is always on here giving advice to others.

I am starting to think the world has gone mad. I would rather knit a pair of socks than watch two less than perfect people have pedestrian sex but I'm sure it will appeal to some old saddo.

Yes, that's what I mean.She is a latter day Clare Rayner. Being so damned sensible about it all ('Apply Vaseline to ensure handcuffs don't chafe') utterly ruins the naughtiness of it all.

Depends really?are you relatively good looking or a complete munter? If munter then avoid because people will just laugh at you.Ha ha.

None of our butts are as small as they used to be! Should be fun anyway!