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Internet sex

107 replies

ExLondonGirl · 19/12/2010 12:25

my dh said he wants us to have sex on a webcam. HELP, im not sure whether to do it. he said we could wear masks so no one recognises us. im scared but also oddly excited. surely there is no harm in it

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ExLondonGirl · 21/12/2010 09:03

Morning all. Well that was actually a lot of fun. We both had a little stage fright to begin but got over it quickly. The people commenting were actually quite funny and complimentary! And dh hasnt shown so much (any) interest in me for years. I think i will make this a once a month treat for good behaviour :-) well worth it. Would recommend to others in need of spice

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BooBooGlass · 21/12/2010 09:05

Yuck. This thread is weird. Your dh hasn't shown any interest for years but now you'll happily get it on on camera in front of strangers?
Bollocks. I hope you've enjoyed all the attention though.

batman47555 · 21/12/2010 09:06

good for you
shame i'm not one the type that sits and watches thses things

BenHer · 21/12/2010 09:09

Well done OP.I admire you and your husbands sense of spirit and adventure.

OhLittleTownOfShirley · 21/12/2010 09:20

What a load of bolleaux

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 10:24

a load of swinging bolleaux

your husband hasn't shown any "interest" for years ??

you are nothing more than a blow-up doll...your husband can only get it up when you are displaying for other people to wank over Xmas Hmm

glad you think it was worth it, I am afraid my healthy self-esteem would be sending me some pretty strong warning signals by now...

nogreatexpectations · 21/12/2010 11:11

you are nothing more than a blow-up doll...your husband can only get it up when you are displaying for other people to wank over well said because that just about sums it up.

Your husband has shown no interest in you for years probably because he is more interested in watching porn than he is in having sex with you. Why else would he suggest the idea in the first place.

If my Dh started to make demands and imply that sex will happen only when I agree to.........well what ever, it simply wouldn't happen at all.

nogreatexpectations · 21/12/2010 11:13

Surrey, interested how did women celebrate christmas?

StuffingGoldBrass · 21/12/2010 11:17

Honestly, what a load of rubbish some people have posted. THere is nothing wrong with trying out something a bit different and 'naughty' if you are happy to do so.
Glad you had a good time OP. You are not the only woman, by a long long way, to enjoy a bit of exhbitionism and there is no suggestion in your posts that your H pressured you into doing something you didn't want to do.

SurreyAmazon · 21/12/2010 11:37

@ NGE - Same thing modern women do when their husbands are out having extramarital relations with other women, prostitutes, men, rent-boys, animals, ladyboys etc, or spending time in lap dancing clubs, or at sex parties, or somesuch.

SA

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 11:39

I didn't think there was any pressure from him either, tbh (or at least it was a mutual thing)

I don't have a problem wih that, per se

But I couldn't have a great deal of respect for a bloke who only showed sexual interest in me when I was performing for others

OP, he obviously isn't interested in you but only in displaying you for others, like some sort of object

if that is he sum total of your sex life, I feel sorry for you

OhLittleTownOfShirley · 21/12/2010 11:40

You really are a massive twat SA.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 11:41

SA...do you mean they stay at home looking after the children and telling themselves that "men will be men" and they have no right to object ?

OhLittleTownOfShirley · 21/12/2010 11:42

I haven't had a deletion for AGES. It's like a christmas present to myself.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 11:45

I am sure that xmas present will come early, shirls Xmas Grin

SurreyAmazon · 21/12/2010 11:46

@ OhLittleTownOfShirley shrugs

@ AF - That is one of them. PS - I am still waiting for that PM. Thanks.

SA

ExLondonGirl · 21/12/2010 11:51

Thanks SGB. You are right, there was no pressure. He suggested and I was happy to go along. How does this differ from role play, for example. That also stems from boredom of the status quo. Yes, it's private, but still shows dh (and dw) are bored. Glad I tried.

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 11:54

what pm, SA ?

the one where you admit to me in private that you were wrong to tell anoher woman that all she needed to "put her right" was for a cock to deposit semen down her throat ?

it would be best if you did that on the thread, then everyone else could see it, tbh

Malificence · 21/12/2010 11:55

You are so wrong Ex, doing things out of boredom never works, you have to have a good and fulfilling sex life in the first place to get anything out of trying new things.

If normal sex is boring to you, your sexual relationship is as good as dead.

SurreyAmazon · 21/12/2010 12:05

Heh. I have no remorse over that post. NONE. I thought I made that clear after I turned down your demand for an apology?.

No dear, this PM pertains to the post which got deleted and you go on to intimate that having read it, I 'spat my dummy out', and promptly sped off to reported it. I asked you to repost it, or failing that, PM it to me. Your reasoning intrigues me AF, so I have a feeling that your post could have very well made me step back and question everything I know and hold dear, including my existence.

SA

SurreyAmazon · 21/12/2010 12:07

@ Malificence - I am not saying this to be argumentative, but I am curious to know what 'normal' sex is, and who decides what normal is.

Thank ye,

SA

ExLondonGirl · 21/12/2010 12:08

Not dead anymore I hope. And with an Anne summers in every high street now, I believe I am right. And so do many of their shoppers.... I will leave it there now. Thx all

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 21/12/2010 12:18

SA, it is clear there is no reasoning with such a person that feels no twinge of conscience whatsoever about posing such a vile piece of ideology

batman47555 · 21/12/2010 12:21

AF each to there own (maybe)

OhLittleTownOfShirley · 21/12/2010 12:24

I think people who use the same username all over the internet must be really REALLY dense.