i feel so miserable today

[allgonebellyup]

The bloke i have/had been seeing for nearly 3mths has turned out to be a total dick and we stopped seeing each other a few days ago. ITs only hit me today though. I feel so gutted. He started off so keen.

Also my bank has charged me £200 in fees for going over my overdraft, my boiler broke and is costing £400 and also there is so much wrong with my car so that will be at least another £400
i have no money whatsoever and i just want to moan and feel sad.
Sorry.

Anyway...im going !!
I'm gone!and wont be back!!!

Go, be happy! Glad you're feeling better today.

The rest of us might stay here and moan for a bit though if you don't mind?

limez - what is the 'flowers' thread,btw?

Hi Bellyup,

Sorry to hear about your woes. I don't really have any advice other than the bank charge thing - you can get the fees back if the bank has charged you an 'unreasonable' amount (even after the Supreme Court's shock ruling in favour of the banks earlier in the year) - and £200 is mega unreasonable.

Click here:
www.thisismoney.co.uk/savings-and-banking/bank-charges/article.html?in_article_id=417735&in_page_id=507 and then click on 'step two'. The letter comes up all ready to go.

This has worked for me in the past. The letter's already written for you so it's worth a shot, anyway.

Good luck and hope you feel better very soon. xx

Happy Birthday, SGB. Give yourself a bit of pampering at home.

We need it when we get to our age. (ONLY JOKING).

I think Grace mentioned a disorder what makes people sleepy , i think she said it was the brains way of coping with stress , to just shut down .

Some idiot men do this deliberateley though , indulge in huge long naps at acuteley inconvenient times , expecting everyone to tiptoe round them while they snooze , or better still , for you to stay and observe them like sleeping beauty. In fact theres a chapter in that well known book about this.