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Straightforward sex technique question. Very detailed!

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:00

On numerous occasions I have come accross the suggestion that a man's orgasm can be delayed and thus increase his feeling by blocking the flow of semen if enough pressure is applied at the base of the penis just before he is about to come.

Where exactly are you suppose to press and how? At the base on the underside (towards the testicles as it were) where the urethra can be felt? How genle can you be?

This question has been on my mind for the last three months and I finally plucked up the courage to ask here as I didn't want to start a half-hearted attempt on DH without knowing what's what exactly.

I expect HappyDaddy will know the definitive answer to this one!

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trefusis · 30/08/2005 20:04

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:19

well trefusis I didn't know about that one! I will have to try it out and see how it goes.

I think the 'pressure' thing only needs to take place for seconds to give a result. I don't know if it actually works or not.

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rickman · 30/08/2005 20:20

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cod · 30/08/2005 20:21

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:22
Grin
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cod · 30/08/2005 20:22

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rickman · 30/08/2005 20:23

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stitch · 30/08/2005 20:23

well, its good to know some people are still having sex.

Mud · 30/08/2005 20:24

i find the best way to delay orgasm si to mention that yo'd love another baby just as he's getting to that point if you see what i mean

cod · 30/08/2005 20:24

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Kidstrack2 · 30/08/2005 20:24

This technique is usually used by men who have premature ejaculation problems, doctors self teach the man or his partner to squeeze firmily with a thumb and fore finger below the head of the penis not the base for a few seconds until the feeling of ejaculation has subsided therefore can carry on having full sex!

rickman · 30/08/2005 20:24

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:25

Hee hee you lot!

I still want to know the answer to this one though!

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cod · 30/08/2005 20:25

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:27

Oh my kidsttrack 2!!!
We haven't got that problem yet.

I thought the idea was that all the tension created in all this forced delay bussiness just makes the man feeling really really good when avereything is finally released.

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Branster · 30/08/2005 20:28

coddy you're already doing all of those surely ! you're a natural my dear!

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Kidstrack2 · 30/08/2005 20:29

Yeah I suppose it does bulid up more pressure, and keep him going for longer but I wouldn't say it would do anything more for him!

piffle · 30/08/2005 20:34

hmmm sceptical myself if I were to touch my dp anywhere in that area during any ummm frolicking, that would be the end of the whole event
I prefer a
F* I've left the oven on, or if I want him to get off and get out of bed, I say I think I left the garage light on...

Kidstrack2 · 30/08/2005 20:41

Have I killed it!!! So sorry if I have!

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Branster · 31/08/2005 10:41

Kidstrack2 it would appear you have killed the thread after all!

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Kidstrack2 · 31/08/2005 13:17

Oh dear never mind! ha ha You now know if you need a sex question or technique answered I'll be here to kill the thread!!!

liandme · 31/08/2005 13:34

you can buy a ring thing or rubber band to put around it and it is supposed to prolong it well so my friend told me, her x used to use a elastic band and have it around his testicles and penis but he was quite strange lol

Kidstrack2 · 31/08/2005 13:46

I'm sorry but if I knew Dp had an elastic band round his you know what I couldn't help but pull it far back as I could and let it... well you know PING! Ahhh

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Branster · 31/08/2005 16:23

Hmm I don't think I want it last forever and ever !

I thought this particular technique, if it does indeed exist (?) might be interesting now and then but since none's used it I'll stick to what I know.

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mumtosomeone · 31/08/2005 16:28

never even tried to delay him..he can go all night!!!!

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