Straightforward sex technique question. Very detailed!

[Branster]

On numerous occasions I have come accross the suggestion that a man's orgasm can be delayed and thus increase his feeling by blocking the flow of semen if enough pressure is applied at the base of the penis just before he is about to come.

Where exactly are you suppose to press and how? At the base on the underside (towards the testicles as it were) where the urethra can be felt? How genle can you be?

This question has been on my mind for the last three months and I finally plucked up the courage to ask here as I didn't want to start a half-hearted attempt on DH without knowing what's what exactly.

I expect HappyDaddy will know the definitive answer to this one!

LOL you lot!
Its apparently called the oriental technique (so i was told). It involves squeezing the base really really hard with thumb and forefinger in a ring type hold (or your whole fist....) for about a minute when he gets close and then carry on going. You know you are doing it right because a) he doesnt cum and b) it gets somewhat larger than normal because it causes more blood to flow in - which could be more beneficial to you perhaps....! Repeat as necessary until such time you wish to finish. Takes practise though. Sorry to be the boring one and give straight answer!

is it the orient that believe it is a sin to waste body fluids therefore you should hold off as long as possible?

it sure sounds like hard work!

Havent a clue about the reasons behind the origin of the technique, but we had great fun practising it. He rather enjoyed being the instructor, but i think we are going into a wierd area now..........!

it isnt hard work - its supposed to be fun btw

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Pruni - your posts always make me smile

cant ever listen to that song again now!! Have horrid visions of mumsnetters holding their mans tools!!!!

Branster....dunno, sorry.

no wonder you are called vickitiredmum

lol fio! Dont bother with it nowadays - time constraints require the opposite treatment!

lol you guys

Happy Daddy I can't believe my eyes: you don't know!!! Somehow I knew you'd get on this thread and was hoping you'd enlighten me.

Anyway, the way things are at the moment I won't be able to experiment right now but I'll give it a try next week after warning DH first. Who knows, maybe he's all knowledgable on the subject and I have no idea.

lol! defo warn him first branster - you might terrify him if he doesnt know of the technique beforehand

I think the technique you are referring to was featured on sex inspectors on Monday night if anyone saw it?>

never seen it..must make a note to watch!!!!
I tried my own version..seems to have an affect!!

Oh God, when did sex become such hard work?

I was thinking recently I ought to go and find someone to f*k, but this thread has just confirmed me once again in my conviction that I can't be bothered!

Repeat after me: "I'm so lucky I'm not married to Sting, I'm so lucky I'm not married to Sting..."

why?

Tantric sex. He can go for fifteen hours. (In the same room as Trudi, I presume).

do you know they castrate animals by putting elastic bands round the testicles - please be careful!

Oh lor. Can you imagine A&E departments if that technique catches on? [GRIN]

15 hours? Think of the chafing

I don't think I'll bother - too much else to remember

hey instead of elastic bands we could use the trendy charity ones!

I know. And I bet they never get any housework done. (After 15 hours, I bet that cobweb you've noticed out of the corner of your eye for the last 7 hours would really begin to annoy you)