My OH's ex.

[dunnowhereiam]

Just need some thought's on this please.

My OH has a ex his 'first love' she was my friend then we didn't see each other for years anyway she is in contact with me but he never want's to talk about her,ever!!

He say's he is over her but i'm not so sure.

He may have some feelings for his ex but not still be in love with her. He would be a strange person to have been married for years and feel nothing for his ex even if it is just a fondness for some good memories.
I'm not surprised he doesn't want to talk about her and he probably feels quite uncomfortable about you being friends with her. When you say he never wants to talk about her it implies you have asked him a number of time. If he tells you he is over her then you need to either accept this and let it drop or end the relationship if you cannot trust his answer.
You have the right to be friends with anyone you like but if this relationship is important to you it may be worth losing touch with her or at least agreeing not to discuss her with your OH.
Hope it works out for you

Casmama - Thank you, I don't think i can drop it and i think it is best to finish it with him seen as i can't let it go.

Thank you.

Thats good wouldnt want it rubbing off on your poor kids i was concerned about them,bless didnt ask to be born did they.

And shineon - you got it wrong dear it's the other way round, he can't get enough of me nice try tho and it did upset you else you wouldnt of got your hubby on here for back up.stupid woman.

Oh and hubby obviously she hasn't got the balls in RL. Dear dear shineon what does that say about you.

dunno - please go and read a book. Any book. Preferably this one.

Don't need to get a rise out of you at all your hilarous but not in RL haha.

oh that hurt shineon be a luv and go play with the traffic.

Hubby - bitchness is rubbing off on you on here to i see but shhh its not RL so no need to be scared of the come back.

JujusDad - if thats how you look i dread to see the wife.

Saying my man will run off with his ex no need to worry about yours is there

Nuff said.

Ah, another personal attack.

Obviously I've hit a nerve. Shame you haven't.

I'll let you rant by yourself now, dear. I suspect you're used to that.

What the great galloping fuck was that all about??

I think the auditions for Jeremy Kyle are over there somewhere. Make sure you get there early to get the best sandwiches.

expand your circle of friends

this is hilarious!!

ha ha ha, shiny that was the most non-sensical argument i have seen in a long time. someone was a bit over sensitive me thinks.

"What in my post points to me being a bad person?"

Nothing particularly, up to that point, but pretty much everything she said from then on.

Shiney and JuJusDad, you make a superb double act Sorry I missed it last night as I'd have loved to see the deleted posts.