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My OH's ex.

151 replies

dunnowhereiam · 18/08/2010 19:27

Just need some thought's on this please.

My OH has a ex his 'first love' she was my friend then we didn't see each other for years anyway she is in contact with me but he never want's to talk about her,ever!!

He say's he is over her but i'm not so sure.

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expatinscotland · 21/08/2010 20:48

this OP and thread is a good reminder to me why i no longer drink :o.

Gigantaur · 21/08/2010 20:52

more faithfull than mine?
And you base this conclusion on the fact that A) you have just started a thread wondering whether he is still in love with his ex. B) whilst discussing your fears you decide he is a liar and that you will end it with him and C) i have never had even the faintest hint that my partner has even considered cheating on me and D) he has never had a history of cheating E) unlike your bloke.

you really are a proper twat. you deserve your unfaithfull ugly munter of a bloke love.

expatinscotland · 21/08/2010 20:54

'you really are a proper twat. you deserve your unfaithfull ugly munter of a bloke love.'

I nominate this for Quote of the Week. Do you think it will make it into the round-up?

Let's keep bumping this thread so it makes it into that 'Most Active' box on the right-hand side of the screen :o.

Doodleydoo · 21/08/2010 20:56

HI larious - completely - am lost and haven't got a clue but still, tres amusant!

Gigantaur · 21/08/2010 20:58

don't worry Doodly - nor does the OP.

Grin
expatinscotland · 21/08/2010 20:59

It's like One Flew Over the Cukoo's Nest: The MN Thread.

Gigantaur · 21/08/2010 21:00

oh i hope it doesn't.

OP's poor OH will be accused of looking at said cuckoo with desire, he will deny it and she will accuse him of lying and promise to end it all.

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:01

Awww your all stalking me.

Never said my bloke had been unfaithful - get your facts right.

Notice shineon started this and then pissed off, just like the wimp she is in RL.

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Portofino · 21/08/2010 21:02

No wonder he doesn't want to talk to you - he's probably too scared!

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:02

See you all at meet up - love ya.

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expatinscotland · 21/08/2010 21:04

Will you be wearing that badge that reads: Kerazee Ladee?

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:07
Grin
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FellatioNelson · 21/08/2010 21:16

My DH doesn't know any of my ex boyfriends (well, one, a little bit) but if he did know one of them very well I would feel distinctly uncomfortable about discussing him together. It's just bound to open a can of worms, and lead to all sorts of comparisons, and if either one of you is a bit insecure it will just cause trouble. What's to discuss? It doesn't matter, really, whether he's 100% over her or not - she's not in his life anymore and you are! Let him move on without having to justify himself.'

I can think of people I'm not fully 'over' after more than 20 years, but I don't see them, I never will, and I'm very happily married, so it doesn't matter, does it?Confused

Gigantaur · 21/08/2010 21:22

Considering he dumped me for her then yes their is a slight pang of jealousy.

I have never been in love before but i love him thought he was 'the one' but i think we are done now not playing second best.

We talk about everything thought we was mates to but obviously not seen as he lied.

Years ago i went out with him he dumped me to be wit her.

Casmama - Thank you, I don't think i can drop it and i think it is best to finish it with him seen as i can't let it go.

but you have nothing to worry about, no? hahahahahahahahaaaaaaa

oh so you know Shineon in RL? how fabulous.
I do wonder though why you would post "Casmama - Thank you, I don't think i can drop it and i think it is best to finish it with him seen as i can't let it go." if that were true though.

I think you are a very sad yung lad with such poor self esteem you feel the need to lash out at other people who are obviously very happy.

very much looking forward to meeting you at christmas.

Gigantaur · 21/08/2010 21:23

Fellatio - you are very late to this party Grin

pokeydot · 21/08/2010 21:26

dunno you have to be the biggest twunt I've EVER seen on MN...trolls included!!!!

how very strange you are!

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:28

Gigantaur - you couldn't be more wrong.If i am a boy i'm best to tell my OH. Hmm

I am looking forward to it to, can't wait.

No i have nothing to worry about at all and actually i'm quite smug about it. Thanks guys for the help.

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FellatioNelson · 21/08/2010 21:28

Er, yes, I've just realised that. Blush Sorry.Grin

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:31

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pokeydot · 21/08/2010 21:31

dunno in all seriousness what was you OP about then??

you were worried he was still in love with his ex...that he was lying to you...that he didnt love you etc.

yet now your being quite vicious in your replies that everything is rosy?
can you not see how odd it all looks!?!?

Rindercella · 21/08/2010 21:35

dunno, have reported your last post. Absolutely bang out of order.

I hope you live happily ever after with your fit, faithful man. Good luck.

Portofino · 21/08/2010 21:35

dunno - I reported your last post. That is just evil. I hope you are proud of yourself, and that you get banned.

dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:36

Eh i think you will find shineon started it -Then had to have her back up.

I did. I was being soooo silly. I know he loves me but i was a little worried about her but she wasn't actually his first love and she is fat and no oil painting so me or her not really a big competion.

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dunnowhereiam · 21/08/2010 21:37

So is she. Not nice being on the recieving end.

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Portofino · 21/08/2010 21:37

Oh fuck off!