Help just need support because he's messing with my head

[womblingfree1970]

For those who haven't read my other thread.Recently told my abusive H that I want a divorce.

So next he rings me saying he doesn't want one.But then in the same conversation denies even saying that.

well more has happened since

I dropped kids off to his yesterday and he starts telling me how he can't be with me because of all the things I've said over the last few days.

Because I told him he's still abusive and also that if he really cared about his kids he wouldn't abuse their mother.He now says because I've said all that it shows him how much I resent him so he can't stay with me.

he says I don't take responsibilty for anything and that I don't except blame.I know all this is not true.The logical side of me knows this but the emotional side is starting to have doubts.

help

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I only told him I wanted divorce a few days ago.
He also knows that I cannot start the ball rolling until the children go back to school because I do not want to visit a solicitor with them and have no one to look after them.

So I cannot take action until then

You can look on the Court website for information on divorce, and you can ring the court to ask for papers to be sent to you.

If it is a straight forward divorce, a solicitor isn't really necessary but sometimes it is really good to have someone to fight your corner for you. In this situation I think a solicitor would be worth it! But you can go with a list of questions and some idea of what you want. Looking at the stuff on line might help you understand what is involved.

Good luck, and I hope this helps.