Help me save my jaw muscles - not for the sensitive

[maktaitai]

Look I must be doing this wrong. Whenever I give a BJ it turns into an extremely short bit of foreplay rather than an actual J as I just can't cope with the pain in my cheeks and jaw. Do I need to do jaw lifts with weights or something? Where am I going wrong?

No. I will not make any crass jokes involving donkeys.

use your hand as well as your mouth.Short bouts of both,with more oral towards the end.

HTH.

Sounds like you need to relax your jaw a little. And use your hands. And do lots of licking and teasing as well as short bursts of full on head action.

I agree with Poshwellies, but i also found that if you look upto him whilst "licking a lollipop" he may not last too long, Saving on jaw ache! ;)

many thanks for responding.

hmm KN, trouble is that due to meds, dh is not a speed merchant to say the least. Will give it a try though.

poshwellies, always H and M together, or do you mean one then the other?

Have you tried having abreak while tongue tickling his balls? Apparantly v nice for the fellas?

another good thought

maybe i could write a little crib list on his thigh

and f you dare venture on to the bit fater the balls before the bum.. mens perinium bit (don't worry m'netters, there's more chance of dr jake ramorez turning up at a hospital than me! ) then y=you usually have got early finish from the original task

(don't know why i even typed this: dh and i get down to it once in a blue moon )

after, not fater!!!! christ...

Keep it mainly hands with a bit of licking. There's no room for complaint, really.

Takes notes

It sounds like you might have problems with your TMJ (Temporomandibular joint - the bit that clicks)

I remember going down on a particularly well-endowed man while his girlfriend was being particularly talented.

I learnt a few tricks - Don't take it in your mouth, lick up the side - makes him feel bigger.

Hmm.... that was an interesting night.

Spiral motion combined with up and down motion with hand speeds things up for my DH

and how do you stop the gagging?

We do 69 and when you do that it means as you are getting pleasure I find I forget the effort your putting in back! It also means I always get an orgasm before we start on sex so everyones happy!

Gagging? You are taking too much into your mouth. Or you are letting him control how much goes in. A blow job should be something you do to him, with him sitting or lying and you in charge, using tongue, lips, hands all over his genitals. It is not him ramming his cock as far into your mouth as he wants. Yuk.

No nothing like that he wouldn't ram it in, but I still gag (not all the time it just seems more of a surprise gag as in I don't know it's going to happen).

Maybe I am just trying to stuff as much in as poss

2kids.. get him to wash more??

Seriously, it is about controlling intake. Having him sitting with your hand round the base can be useful here.

Oh lol it gets a bloody good scrub first ))dirty willies((

Thank you folks, I feel progress was made last night

sunny, the day 69 gives me an orgasm my sausages will fly round the room on their own. Glad it works for somebody...

God yes.. agree re 69. Doesnt nowt for me. Cannot concentrate on 2 jobs at once.

Try changing position too - if you are kneeling between his legs when he is lying on the bed try having him sit at the edge of the sofa or bed or vice versa. I find if I get the angle wrong it makes my jaw ache.

"the day 69 gives me an orgasm my sausages will fly round the room on their own."

It makes me orgasm everytime, I thought it must do for everyone!