I got home after a fortnight away yesterday. DH was very affectionate all evening, said how much he had missed me etc. Then my period started early evening, I felt tired and headachey and wasn't up for sex. DH was livid, sprang away from me like I had the plague then sulked until he fell asleep and left for work early without a word this morning. Which left me thinking that he hadn't missed me as much as he missed sex.
A bit of context - my sex drive has been low for several years and his is quite high so there is tension anyway. We had a talk before I went away - he said he is miserable, I said I was too because of the pressure. I have no idea what to do.