Wow - deep breath - thank you ladies - i'm looking at all your links and sugestions. I welcome any more, this is great! i'm learning loads b4 hitting the shops which is invaluable for me, 'cos even when not preg. i tend to go blank once i get through the shop doors, lol. (making a list actualy, to take with me)
bilblio - city elite looks good actualy. Couldnt find a video of how it folds and reclines tho' ... can anyone shed light? Idea of dismantling the carry cot to make the pushchair with the bugaboo chameleon has put me off a bit too ...
kalo - mountain buggy carry cots look lovely. Not soo keen on the drop down recline - will have to check that out i think. I'd like a 'swivel' recline ...
underachieving + upyourdiva - thank you, i'll remember those hates!
Fumblina - am REALY liking the concord neo. Wish i could find a video for it. Absolutely agree that colapsing in one part is sooooo good. mmmmm will look into this one further thank you
tigermumy - your right, i do need to play with a few. And thank you for the tip about car seats. I'm quite confused about weather the carseat/buggy thing is a good idea or not .....
susia - i am very interested in a realy decent carrycot. Lots of girls have raved about the bugaboo one.
notso - thank you about the quinny buzz.
moomoo - ok, i'm gonna have to check on the pilko in store i think, cos you've given some good 'fors' there.
taten - realy like the look to the britax too. Couldnt load the video so dont know if you have to dimantle to fold. can you tell me? 
lockets - another + for bugaboo!