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July Shed II

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FlyMeToDunoon · 16/07/2010 18:30

Hello and welcome.

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lillypie · 12/08/2010 07:11

Ok basl so now we have discovered what the the shiftiness and moodiness is about.He was worried about getting caught out!

I think all the sniping and winging at you is to deflect attention away from himself.

I think you need to confront him honi.Tell him what you have found out and ask him what the hell he is up to.Don't let him twist it round on to you though.

You are doing beautifully basl don't let the wankers behaviour knock you back.And remember you are not responsible for the actions of ANY other adult,just your own.DON'T let him try to blaime you in any way,it is NOT your fault xxxxxx Angry Sad

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 07:55

well said lillypie, i agree totally. Def need some confrontation. I hate atmospheres it is very very stressful and draining not nice for the lo's either. Hope you sort it out. Im off and on all day always here to listen Basl you know that my lovely xx

sal1309 · 12/08/2010 08:20

moring all

basl glad work is going ok, shame dh is bding an arse.

well im a bit miffed bought a footmuff off here and its never turned up cant do pp claim as paid by gift. contacted buyer she keeps saying she will chase it but never hear back and she hasnt replied to my last email. :(

hope everyone is ok. I love my p&t and find it handy even if dd2 doesnt use it as have extra storage space lol

5inthebed · 12/08/2010 08:53

Morning everyone.

Basl . You're doing great, shame your (D)H isn't doing what he should be doing and hlping you get back to your cheery self.

Oh dear Sal, hope it turns up. How long ago was it sent? It's a side by side P&T that I have, it's like a tank but like a dream to push.

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 09:09

who did you buy off sal?

sal1309 · 12/08/2010 09:26

it was posted on the 19th july she said it was sentg recorded so not sure why it cant be traked ect.

nicola i have cat u the name, she has been on here a while i think and im sure ive bought off her before but hey ho :(

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 10:20

mmmmh strange that one eh?

busy downloading songs this morning on mine and toms ipods! he's pleased as i couldn't work out how to do it before!! He now wants a touch tho instead of his nano...greedy boy!

doing some housework this morning and taking boys to see shrek later.

carrielou2007 · 12/08/2010 10:38

Morning Smile

Basl men, hmmn, I want to say nice that he is taking some care for his appearance but when it costs t should be a joint decision/agreement? I'm going to say this quickly so here goes....sounds like he is making himself look nice to impress someone...there, I've said it Sad

Sal, I had the same, bought stuff from on here and paid gifted pp never turned up and have never seen her on here since Angry

My boss has just left, ack at work the week after next. Ah well, will be working in my old local surgery again (yay!) for a month or two at least then goodness knows where but he was quite ok if i wanted to do 2 long days insted of 3 for a little bit so that's good.

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 10:44

two long days would be good tho carrie? i hated going back after luka really struggled. was fine after the other two but i really have no interest in it anymore. couldn't afford or negotiate childcare. Think if i don't have another baby then i will look into childminding.

lillypie · 12/08/2010 10:54

carrie you are braver than I am,that's what I was thinking.So hope we are wrong Sad

Going back to work is pants!!

I have just been talking to my mum,they arrive from oz on thursday week!! We have booked a cottage in Cornwall for a week in Sept so we can all go away together,I can't wait!!

I was so excited about ds2 starting a family that I made up with ds1's girlfriend after swearing I would have nothing more to do with her lolol

basl · 12/08/2010 10:59

Morning everyone. Have lots of children playing today so Olivia and Daniel having a great time.

Olivia recieved a postcard from her new Headteacher saying hope she had a nice summer holiday and Her and Olivia's teacher as so looking forward to her starting primary 1.

Olivia was just about in tears as she thought is was so nice. What a lovely touch eh?

Thankyou lillypie that really does mean alot.xxx Smile

Carrie Grin it's ok. I am going to say this quickly. I few months ago i found a mobile phone just like whats his name of Boyzone. My H was having a fling/affair what ever he wanted to call it. I found the phone.
So yes i have wondered this myself if anything going on again. His whole behavior is so odd. He assures me nothing to worry about and would never do this again but i do wonder. This is why i was off work as everything just got too much.

I do however feel more possitive than i ever have and really am going to deal with this no matter what. Smile

Please tell me about the volo i want one. Stuff the cost it will be about the price of one white filling? Grin

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 11:12

basl they don't do those back/yellow volo's anymore they are 2008 version.

dh needs a kick up the backside, get yourself that bloody phone hunnie!! you are a stronger lady then you were a few months back, you are on a journey now xx

GeekOfTheWeek · 12/08/2010 11:21

Morning all,

nic, what niper are you selling? I need one! Bloody jane seller really messing me about. Feel like telling her to get fucked Angry

basl, are you ok? I am really sorry but I doubt very much that his fling ever stopped. His behaviour is not that of a loving husband. Tbh I think you deserve better. Please do not try to pacify him and please him etc. He is in the wrong not you. I feel awful typing this but it can't go unsaid.

My email is mairyhuff @ hotmail.co.uk if you need to chat.

Nic, email as above for the beady things!

lillypie · 12/08/2010 11:29

wanker wanker wanker!!! Angry

Basl you are amazing and don't you ever bloody forget it!!!

It's a trick that men use to absolve themselves from the guilt of an affair to try and make you think that somewhow it was your fault.When I think of the hurt that you've been though the past few months because of that twat I want to kill him!!! Angry

If it was me I would be kicking his ass to the curb but obviously it's an easy thing to say when when you are not emotionally involved.

Buy the volo and the phone!!! Grin

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 11:47

geek it is nipper 360 black single im selling. There are few spots of rust on the wheel spokes, but fabrics are immaculate as is handle bar, r/c and liner inc. and can also inc.snunkie liner if wanted. Am keeping travel bag tho as have my eye on getting a retro nipper!

GeekOfTheWeek · 12/08/2010 11:56

How much nic? Haven't been on the sale board for ages so must have missed it!

Brand new ones on offer in kiddicare atm inc the red one. I was planning on putting one on the cc and hiding it from dh Wink

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 12:05

oooh really? will go look! wanted £100 plus post x

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 12:07

same price as i paid for my first nipper they are that on ebay. the nipper retro raspberry is bit different to the normal red. i can't decide what to do.

GeekOfTheWeek · 12/08/2010 12:15

Dilemma!

5inthebed · 12/08/2010 12:51

Sad Basl. You deserve so much better, you're a lovely person.

Nicola, get both and see Wink. I prefer the red to the retro.

carrielou2007 · 12/08/2010 13:19

Basl I'm so sorry for saying that I did not mean for you to hve to say anything back, wish I'd kept my big fat gob shut now Blush. Go and spend spend spend!!! Just retrned my volo to Boots, it is gorgous I juts prefer the black frame/black combo.

Geek stupid flippin seller, buy a nipper!!! I have a new change ba, a black leather storksak it is fab fab fab!!

nicolamumof3 · 12/08/2010 14:26

i feel yuck my cold is coming out can't stop coughing feel awful. But we go on don't we!! Just off to take boys to cinema at local leisure ctr. never been before but can't get to big multiplex on bus. We are going to see shrek.

GeekOfTheWeek · 12/08/2010 14:32

carrie, stop it! I don't take much persuasion and am easily led Grin Your new bag sounds gorge. You like? My blooming gorgeous is fab but I will be needing another when i get back from hols!

Nic, i haven't see the retro one but i do like the normal red as its not girly.

carrielou2007 · 12/08/2010 14:42

Grin geek, pics of bag on my profile

GeekOfTheWeek · 12/08/2010 14:47

Love it! It looks v glam. I am fancying a plain, dark one for autumn/winter.

PMSL at all the prams Grin