Our timeline is ridiculous - we sold back in November to FTB who are being SO incredibly patient with the chain, I am grateful for that. (we didn't expect to sell quite so quickly, and we did need to wait until end of spring before we could reasonably expect to move anyway, so they knew from the start)
We had lost out on The Perfect House around the same time, unfortunately we were only proceedable a few days after they sold it to someone else.
We then offered on a probate property that wasn't well maintained, but we figured we would do what we could to make it work, it was still in the area we wanted, etc. But as time went on, and the survey came back, and the electrician's report came back, we got more and more worried at costs, stress, and as it turned out, my youngest is ND and now needs a special school, so our ability to absorb the stress of a full renovation is at nil levels.
After the New Year we noticed the original house was back on the market, so we decided that we wanted to go for that one again and stepped away from the other property. I was then promptly made redundant. We had about a month for me to scramble to find a new job to keep the purchase going, which luckily I'd managed, and we were finally back on track.
Our vendors were originally wanting to move in March, if their first sale hadn't fallen through, so they seemed very keen to progress, and pushed us to exchange asap. So we chivvied along the paperwork on both sides of the chain as best we could, answering queries and signing contracts immediately, etc.
And now here we are, last week of May, not exchanged yet, and a resounding silence from our vendors. I'm absolutely exhausted by the ups and downs of it all - very poor timing on our end with job and changing our minds on which house to purchase, etc, which has meant our buyers have held on for months and months to potentially see their family home purchase go poof as well. I'm so, so worried, for the numerous people this will impact, and how upsetting it all could end up being.
We're trying to make peace with the possibility of not moving, how we could change the house to better suit our needs, things we've put up with because we were due to be leaving, but now we can't really cope with for much longer. Nothing structurally serious, just inconvenient and aesthetically unappealing, etc. So at least we have a back-up idea of how all this might play out.
But to lose this house move will be utterly galling.