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Finally got a council house but im living next to a nightmare!! Advice

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Slowmo98 · 10/08/2023 09:28

So i finally got a council house, which was exciting at first, and me and my SO want to save up to get a deposit for our own place. The first instance started at 10am as i had someone come to put my carpets in, suddenly the neighbour (I'm attached too) screams out the window telling me to shut the 'f' up, while screaming some other insults. Obviously the carpet bloke continued and next minute she comes round onto the property screaming and shouting saying she will make my life a living hell, and that iv not even moved in yet and shes out for me.

This scared me so much!! I have anxiety and depression and this rocketed it to the roof. I also have a 22 month old.

The next time i hear is a man screaming at her door bashing on the windows and doors with her screaming the street down!!

Iv moved in and i hate it here already!!
Iv even spoke to other neighbours (Who are lovely) that have warned me to watch my back living next to this woman.

I have reported her to the council (only thing i knew to do) And they sent a letter to her house saying theres been a complaint and to stop before further action is taken. its made it worse!!! Shes been banging on our walls shouting at us. Im so worried for my daughter and my anxiety is worse then ever

I need advice!!! What do i do, am i overreacting? what would you do?

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Slowmo98 · 15/05/2024 17:00

Werehalfwaythere · 15/05/2024 13:47

So some other poor family have to put up with her? So unfair.

My cousin is like this. Toxic and deeply troubled. She's gone from abusive relationship to abusive relationship and has currently settled with a real waste of space excuse of a human and has since lost custody of her 4 young children as she can't (or won't) put them first and has got mixed up in drugs and drink. I dread to think what her neighbours have had to put up with. It's so frustrating to see her live this awful life and she's beyond repair now. She can't even see what she's doing to her own gorgeous children.

People like this don't change. I'm so sorry the council are ineffective op. Her youngest child would be better off in another family and she needs to be evicted. Unfortunately, because she still has custody of her 2 year old, she'll get to stay and anyone who has an issue will need to move. And if they don't take her child, there's a good chance they'll end up troubled like her son too.

The enforcement team have said they're going to get us somewhere else, and have said the people who have caused us hell will not be getting away scot-free and will have consequences

I'm so sorry to hear that it's awful sadly its hard to help those who have fell so deeply, we are all product of our environment mostly some of us just get in the wrong crowd, though not an excuse for the behaviour we've had against us, it's one of these things sadly

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CaptainCarrotsBigSword · 15/05/2024 18:31

I'm really glad to hear you are getting a new place sorted OP.

Beautiful21 · 11/07/2024 02:28

Slowmo98 .. did u ger sorted out in end ?! ...I been through all thos n loads more!! Its hell ! Police n council are brick.walls !! Bunch of clowns don't listen. Ever ! .nightmare living like this n bloody help n support . Keeping logs diaries waste of time! Council still do nothing! Seen it all.!!!!!

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