I am so depressed reading this thread. Can I add my tale of woe?
September 2021 - Offered on one house, well over asking, offer accepted. We went on holiday to Spain and left it to our solicitors. Three days into our holiday, and 7 days after we instructed solicitors, our seller contacts the EA to say we aren't moving fast enough and he is offering it to a friend.
Another house came onto the market which we had loved and lost previously, we upped our offer it went for 50k over our offer, which was already 50k over asking.
We accept a firm offer on our house and start the selling process.
The buyer asks for a pre-Xmas exchange and we agree if we can find a property. We struggle. We find another house which we can renovate in the location we love. It is empty and the sellers are patient. We have an offer accepted.
Our buyers have behaved really badly since. Survey issues were made up, and went away when challenged, nitpicking with documents etc.
Our property is a leasehold house and last week our buyers decided they want a freehold house. Fair enough you might say, but why raise it now? Especially as they also selling a leasehold property and used to live in one on this very road too.
Their solicitors and ours have vied for who is the hardest to deal with. Ours say theirs are incompetent and vice versa. We are stuck in the middle.
We have offered to buy the freehold or pay their costs for buying it and they are considering it......
I love our house and am considering just buying the freehold and staying put.
All the joy and excitement of moving and planning has been sucked out of me. I am doubting whether the house we have lined up is the one and now another house I have always loved is back on the market.
I am so stressed with it all.
DH is walking a tightrope with my mood swings. Trying to keep me buoyant and upbeat. Endlessly listening to my deliberations.
He is happy if I am happy and can see the positives in anything, but this limbo is even getting to him.