I've spent the day filling in forms and answering queries from the buyer's solicitor. My ex, it transpires, did not get building regs sign off on the conservatory/kitchen extension, and there were unresolved issues, so what should have been a simple sale is getting complicated.
I just feel sick. I've been divorced 12 yrs - I never wanted the bloody extension, it was his 'project', I should have left with the dc and given him the bloody house and moved on, but I thought it would be best for the kids if we stayed. We had an "amicable" divorce so the house was just signed over to me as part of the deal, no shit hot lawyer watching my back. Fuck.
I find legal stuff really stressful anyway - FFS I'm an adult who had a really responsible and stressful job but it took me 2 days to open the bloody emails and I agonise over the answers - my ex just sails through these things, legal stuff doesn't bother him at all.
I know I need to pull up my big girl pants and just deal with it, why on earth am I so stressed by it?
trying hard not crack open the
again tonight .....