Arrghhhh hey folks so sorry for my absence but the saturation point of this house selling business is off the scale most of the time and my poor brain is just about coping.. we are STILL not exchanged! So nearly 17weeks since accepting the offer, all questions have been dealt with, mortgage in place for our buyers...there are no problems at all apart from paperwork, each piece of paper work is taking just over a week to get signed and back in the file...a whole week.
After three month delay waiting for bottom of the chain to have their mortgage reprocessed due to the EA marketing it incorrectly the last hurdle was waiting for their new mortgage offer to go through, then we were good to go.....mortgage offer arrived...that was 4 weeks ago...delays since then are:
- Buyer at bottom needs to sign new buyer form
- Our buyers solicitor hasnt sent out purchase contract despite nothing changing for 3 weeks
- Week later contract not back, our solicitors call us advising they have no transfer document signed by us and the buyers solicitor is requesting it...erm yes you do we cry...sudddenly they find it and send it to solicitors
- Said transfer doc has to be sent to buyers....so it gets sent out to them middle of last week, they are holding onto purchase contract and will send them both back together
- Docs confirmed as being sent back on Monday, as off today the buyers solicitor has still not received it.
Now this is where it gets interesting....buyer wants to complete by the end of next week as they are off on holiday for 10 days 🙃😲
We have been waiting since December for their sale to be in order, we have been trying to exchange since January (us saying we want to exchange and then being ignored)...they know we are desperate...they also know its a huge distance we are moving also .... our removals can only accomodate us on Monday next week, but cant book them until we are exchanged, cant exchange because solicitors claim no docs...now looks like we are going to be here for another three weeks waiting for our buyers to stop relaxing on holiday and let us move!
Argggghhh! Also coming up to our 1yr anniversay of being on the market...considering when we went on the market our move was urgent I dont honestly know how I am still sane!
I must say I have NEVER experienced a life like this before...its not just the emotional side of it, its the physical exhaustion, the paranoia that its all falling through, its the head being stuck in limbo...teying not to feel anything too much, dont think about family and friends you havent seen for months as you are hundreds of miles away and never make plans to see them as you are waiting for that call that will allow you to put yourself back into first gear and tentatively accelerate for a life moving omwards and upwards ....
Sorry for the rant feeling particularly flummoxed atm....I really dont know how those who exchange and complete on the same day manage the head space that would go along with that!
I sincerely hope everyone is getting green lights in their transactions...and kitkat hope you get an idea on your exchange date soon! Keep smiling folks...and breathe 🙏