You sound calm about the situation ThomasRichard. I'm glad you have come to a decision that suits you. It's hard on your buyer, but it's a buyers market at the moment so hopefully they will find something they like [almost] as much soon
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Oh Artus, that's rubbish news
Hopefully the EA is right though and they will find a buyer quickly. I've been in broken chain purgatory for several weeks and it's tough. Fingers crossed for you.
Enjoy CBeebies RaaRaa, I hope you feel more relaxed and get some decent progress soon.
Zoe - as usual I second Lazy! She is very wise.
Pixie your male vendor sounds like a controlling arse. I hope you, and your female vendor get shot of him as soon as possible. I guess all you, and she, can do is keep up the pressure on him to sign.
Hope the second viewing goes well MrsJW
We are now happening! Our EA has got the AIP and conveyancers details from our purchaser already.
He works for the EA's representing our Lovely Vendor so understands our position and our urgency to complete. We actually ended up with 3 offers! (WTAF?) His was slightly lower than the other two but we think his and his partner's position makes up for the extra money. And if they pull out they will not only be letting us down but his boss (who is LV's EA) so hopefully we won't go through that again!