thanks Guilty it is pretty spectacular.
Perfectly I totally get what you are saying - no apologies for drama needed (we are 'cowering' under Trump - what more needs said?)
We are seeking our forever home - the one in which we shall retire, go traveling from, be able to manage etc. Small, on one level, close to family and able to walk to transport and shopping. We know we have a pretty tall order to fill, but hey - no harm in asking! Does not look like we'll be bidding on the one we saw Saturday though. Our agent brought us back down to earth. With multiple offers coming in, we are not in contention UNTIL we are at minimum in contract with a very soon closing date, or with cash in hand. Of course she is right. We got a wee bit excited there, but have to keep in mind that we have watched at least 5 suitable homes come and go over the last 6 weeks, and there will be more. Patience is needed here. I'm strangely quite fine with it all - guess it was not my dream home.
Our sale is also taking an interesting turn. With the sudden small flood of homes to market (at least 10 added to the 7 that were already up) it is a genuine 'blip' unforeseen in quite some time. It is bound to affect both the offers and the prices, much as we all hate to admit it. However, it is predicted to be a blip and short lived. We had a ton of people at both open house times this weekend, and several groups who came back twice, one three times. Each second and subsequent visit for about an hour. Three more requests for disclosures. Agent says we play it by ear; depending on how many offers are committed today and tomorrow she may advise one more open weekend. May not. Won't decide until tomorrow whether we take offers Wednesday or not. She has kept it rather fluid verbally, nothing in writing, so we don't have to worry about changing our minds and extending the open period.
However, we are both exhausted. I have bags under my eyes in which I could pack my bedding at least. DH is on his last legs and says he can't bear to eat out for even one more meal. Our poor cat is coming home today after a whole week in the 'hotel' and the though of putting her back in is disheartening. Poor baby. We are both committed to doing what is best here though; if it means as big a price swing as agent indicates is possible, we shall shut up and put up with it. We can do it. Probably. Have to just keep in mind why we are moving. If I can really reduce my commute by 2.5 or even 3 hours a day, it is so worth it. We can do it... 