Not.. actually sure what to do at this point.
We had radio silence from the seller for a couple of weeks. Assumed he had decided not to sell and that was that, and was trying to find something else. Then on Thursday (a week ago today) he randomly picked up the phone to his solicitors and stated that he was 'really keen to sell, and would call Monday to discuss completion dates'....
Monday came and went. Solicitors called all day - he didn't answer the phone. Estate agents called. We emailed. They both emailed. They text. Nothing. Tuesday - same thing again.. We emailed stating "please contact us urgently regarding this transaction", and received an email back, stating that "things were looking up for him and he "guessed" we could discuss completion for next week". We replied immediately stating that our buyer needs 2 weeks between exchange and completion for their mortgage funds to be released, and heard nothing since. There have been multiple emails from us sent every day, phonecalls from the solicitors, estate agents, etc. All ignored. No instruction has been given. The solicitors have sent out letters now. He answered the phone once to the agents on tuesday and told them to no longer call him anymore, as he was in "direct talks with the buyer". I suppose the single email we got tossed is "direct talks", but he pretends not to receive any of the other emails we send, and we don't have his phone number. We send the emails from multiple email addresses and CC the agent in too, who also forwards them. They also text him to check his emails. We finally sent a letter today to arrive tomorrow via special delivery (tracked and signed for) that basically states, "please call your solicitors today to either give instruction, or pull out, as this is an absolutely terrible way to treat both us and our buyer". I am expecting the letter to be rejected.
I know that it's obvious. I know that he obviously doesn't want to sell. But at this stage.. We're all ready to exchange.. Everyone was ready months ago.. And he said he had cancer (baring in mind - this is also a second home, absolutely empty, with no personal possessions in there except furniture that he bought with the home (it is ex show home), which we offered to purchase as he was making noises about finding it difficult to arrange removals - AND he accepted), so we tried our best to wait, as he was "waiting for results" after weeks of stringing us along with "trying to arrange removals".. I just.. I just don't understand? If you don't want to sell - why don't you pull out? Why do you call your solicitors without any prompting and state you really do want to sell? What is going on?
My brain is frazzled and I can't take anymore. There's just nothing else on the market, and we've already had 2 other properties fall through as it is.
What do we do now? Has anyone ever faced such an odd situation like this before? Can estate agents REALLY wash their hands of it but then still expect to put their hand out for their fee if it does end up going through at the end of it?? I can't believe he could just do this to us - leaving us in limbo is actually worse than if he'd just pulled out.